"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Judge my c+f and neg hits in this convo.. i wanna know if im doin it right

McKindley

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It doesn't matter if she is a geek as well. You just don't want HER to know YOU have so little to do with your time that you will spend hours talking to a stranger on the net. However, I give you props for actually trying to talk to girls and improve your DJ skills

little points: that part where she listed all the "crazy" stuff she does would have been a good time to neg her. Instead you just reinforced her belief that she is crazy (which from her list, I don't think she's any different than 90% of the people I've met.)

Definately quit the whole "gangsta" thing. If you REALLY don't know what we're talking about, just re read that really long convo you posted. There is no possible way you can pretend you don't know what we're talking about.

Some guys may differ on this opinion, but I don't personally like steering a conversation towards sex with a girl too early (and if you haven't met her, I'd say its too early.) Keep it light and fun. Be witty. Don't ask her about all the crazy sexual stuff she's into. everyone likes sex. but if that is ALL you want to talk about (unless she's a ***** that uses sex to elicit attention from men) it could backfire.

Furthermore, your long convo post had NO funny stuff coming from you. All you wanted to talk about was sex stuff. Be witty, have fun.

I'm not trying to be all negative. The only real positive thing I have to say is you didn't do all the talking like you did in the first convo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FreeStyleZ

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I honsetly dont know what gangsta talk you're talking about. I'm black... and ive been talking like this for a long time. If you consider it gangsta then you are very sheltered or just have not been around many black people before. I dont know what to tell you.
 
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