"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Judge her interest with 15-second test.

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Today I noticed something that I should have realised before — a girl that's into you will choose you over her own morals.

Do this:
Make fun of a random innocent guy at a distance.

Results:
If her reaction is positive then she's into you, if it's negative then she's not into you and if it's neutral then it's an unsuccessful test.

I remember being in a 1 year relationship with a girl that 'loved' me. One day I made fun of this random guy and she then started arguing on how I shouldn't make fun of others blah blah (it happened inside a car and the guy was inside a shop). At that time I didn't know it but this was an obvious sign of low-interest level because if she had any for me then she would have at least brushed it off instead of negatively confronting me about something that didn't really affect her nor the guy.

While on a date with 1 of my new plates I made fun of 2 guys (at a distance) and she just smiled pretending to see the humour.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ubercat

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Probably true however you re showing a poor side of your character
 

Alvafe

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making fun of others is not a good thing for you, shows lack of character and weakness, making fun of a situation is ok, never of a person, that is why the girl who you think is on you just smiled, its was easier she smile and let you think you are funny then do what the other did and spoil the night. but I will not consider she will stay around for too long if that is how you work
 

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Making fun of others is bad and makes you look insecure, so I agree with others that this isn't a good test.

A better test is to have them join you in a hobby that you know they don't care much about. If they comply and appear to be enjoying their time, it's a pretty good indicator that they are interested.
 

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I'm assuming we re talking early game here. Girls normally have their shields up high in the beginning. She will start with the assumption that you are just like all the other annoying idiots she's met. When The Shield's are held high she will operate in polite mode so this really isn't reliable test
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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