"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Judge her interest with 15-second test.

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Today I noticed something that I should have realised before — a girl that's into you will choose you over her own morals.

Do this:
Make fun of a random innocent guy at a distance.

Results:
If her reaction is positive then she's into you, if it's negative then she's not into you and if it's neutral then it's an unsuccessful test.

I remember being in a 1 year relationship with a girl that 'loved' me. One day I made fun of this random guy and she then started arguing on how I shouldn't make fun of others blah blah (it happened inside a car and the guy was inside a shop). At that time I didn't know it but this was an obvious sign of low-interest level because if she had any for me then she would have at least brushed it off instead of negatively confronting me about something that didn't really affect her nor the guy.

While on a date with 1 of my new plates I made fun of 2 guys (at a distance) and she just smiled pretending to see the humour.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ubercat

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Probably true however you re showing a poor side of your character
 

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making fun of others is not a good thing for you, shows lack of character and weakness, making fun of a situation is ok, never of a person, that is why the girl who you think is on you just smiled, its was easier she smile and let you think you are funny then do what the other did and spoil the night. but I will not consider she will stay around for too long if that is how you work
 

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Making fun of others is bad and makes you look insecure, so I agree with others that this isn't a good test.

A better test is to have them join you in a hobby that you know they don't care much about. If they comply and appear to be enjoying their time, it's a pretty good indicator that they are interested.
 

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I'm assuming we re talking early game here. Girls normally have their shields up high in the beginning. She will start with the assumption that you are just like all the other annoying idiots she's met. When The Shield's are held high she will operate in polite mode so this really isn't reliable test
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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