Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Journey from depressed AFC to DJ

Algren

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Over the course of 6 dark months life as I know it has fallen apart in front of my eyes due to drug problems. Gone is the girlfriend I held dearly, gone are most of the people whom I called friends and gone is the respect of others and my own self esteem. But one day I stumbled upon this forum, and learned that there were ways to improve ones self and that there were others who had successfully done it before.

It is my intention that this thread will help guide me and give room for my personal thoughts as well as the opinion of more shall I say "able" men ;)
The first thing I want to improve is my self confidence. Which is currently a hard thing since I recent,y was diagnosed with severe depression. No matter how much you have, one will never be able to truly appreciate life without a sense of self worth.

My goals for the forthcoming year will be;

Battle and overcome clinical Depression
Develop social skills
To enjoy life
Exercise, gain 10 kgs of mass
Overcome approach anxiety when it comes to girls

My long term goal is to maintain a relationship with a girl having the body of a goddess whilst living a happy and fulfilled life. When I die, I want to have a smile on my face, knowing that I've had one hell of a ride.

"Life is a storm, my young friend. You will bask in the sunlight one moment, be shattered on the rocks the next. What makes you a man is what you do when that storm comes. You must look into that storm and shout as you did in Rome. Do your worst, for I will do mine! Then the fates will know you as we know you: as Albert Mondego, the man!"- Alexandre Dumas

My question to you experienced don Juan's is; how did you start your journey? Is there anything you can recommend me to do?

Other than that; Have a pleasant weekend!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nroug7

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Read the book of pook, you sound like the type that will enjoy it, it is in the DJ Bible.
 
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