"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jokes Implying Homosexuality?

Fengal

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They're quite an easy way to get a laugh out of a girl especially if they come from no-where. But are the inherently bad if the rest of your persona is straight?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldn't go there for two reasons.

1. A lot of women are pro-gay liberals who are easily offended by anything that could be construed as anti-gay.

2. While you might get laughs out of the women, anything that even suggests you might be gay can kill the attraction and send you right into friendzone.

I used to share some funny stories about guys hitting on me. To be fair, they were very funny stories that most everyone enjoys. But it kills the attraction because women think (consciously or unconsciously) that I must BE gay for this stuff to happen to me.

I also used to use this routine:

Mike: Hey girls quick question...

HBs: K what

Mike: Is it bad form for a guy to order a strawberry daquiri? <or insert any girly drink>

HBs: No, he can order whatever he wants.

Mike: Oh good. I figured I'd ask because I don't need some guy sending me another one lol.

HBs: hahaaa


It's funny, but it's an attraction killer that puts you in friendzone / dancing monkey / girly shopping partner zone.

So, avoid any gay stuff in your game.
 

YouKnowI'mRight

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Fengal said:
They're quite an easy way to get a laugh out of a girl especially if they come from no-where. But are the inherently bad if the rest of your persona is straight?
It's fine if you want girls to unconsciously start to put you in the non-masculine zone. Remember that her unconscious is putting together an internal representation of whatever you say (if you have rapport). If you keep doing that sort of thing, whatever theme you're on will stick in her mind as an interpretation of Who You Are.
 
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