"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Joining the Armed forces

ssj245

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I might have asked this question already but I am not sure about my choice.

I want to join the airforce and become a fighter pilot.

The thing is that they dont make alot of money and they must spend alot of time away from family.

Its a job which I can see myself enjoy so much, and do what I have always wanted to do.

I feel that though the armed forces if I get the chance to be a pilot that I wont have time for other things and that Im scared my life wont turn out to be the way I want it to be.

I wanted my life to turn to be like a club going, BMW driving hot shot who isnt afraid of anything that sleeps with diffrent women everyday and lives in a nice apartment in some lofty city that flies fighter jets for a living.

Thats only in the movies Im guessing.

I figured I join the airforce and I get to fly and I prob will never get bored, and fly and love my job and on top of that, it will turn me into a total bad-ass and a person with more character and confidence.

But the whole many women and nice apartment isnt looking too bright, since as a Airforce fighter pilot you spend so much time on the base and in the air and you dont make that much money.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Yeah, Topgun was an awesome movie.

Dont even join yet buddy, its obvious that your not mature enough to decide yet.
 

Bible_Belt

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Every Air Force recruit wants to be a pilot. But they only let officers be pilots. Join ROTC and let them pay for college before you go in. Even if you can get a commission as an officer, there is still a lot of competition for the pilot jobs. They give you a lot of tests. They screen out a lot of people for traits that they can't help, like vision, depth perception, height/weight. There is also a type of intelligence test they give you where you look at pictures of complex geometric shapes, and pick out how they would look reversed or up-side-down.

If you just want to be a pilot of some sort, anyone with enough money to pay for the training hours can get a civilian pilot's license. The limiting factor is usually the money.
 

oakraiderz2

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They make a lot of money actually. I have a friend whos dad is a pilot and they have plenty of money.
 

Bible_Belt

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Yeah, the salaries for commercial pilots are high. But for someone starting out to get a basic pilot's license, it will cost them a few thousand dollars to pay for the required hours in the plane.

If you want to be a military pilot, you have a better chance of flying something in the Army. But if you join the Army, they are sending you to Iraq. I have two cousins there now. It's not a place you want to be. One cousin had his seargent bleed to death in his arms because they would not send the medevac helicopter. They said it was too risky. I think the real reason is that they were not going to risk the lives of an officer pilot and an expensive helicopter to save the life of a lowly infantry seargent. A shot-down helicopter makes news in the US; a shot-down seargent does not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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