"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Joining the Armed forces

ssj245

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I might have asked this question already but I am not sure about my choice.

I want to join the airforce and become a fighter pilot.

The thing is that they dont make alot of money and they must spend alot of time away from family.

Its a job which I can see myself enjoy so much, and do what I have always wanted to do.

I feel that though the armed forces if I get the chance to be a pilot that I wont have time for other things and that Im scared my life wont turn out to be the way I want it to be.

I wanted my life to turn to be like a club going, BMW driving hot shot who isnt afraid of anything that sleeps with diffrent women everyday and lives in a nice apartment in some lofty city that flies fighter jets for a living.

Thats only in the movies Im guessing.

I figured I join the airforce and I get to fly and I prob will never get bored, and fly and love my job and on top of that, it will turn me into a total bad-ass and a person with more character and confidence.

But the whole many women and nice apartment isnt looking too bright, since as a Airforce fighter pilot you spend so much time on the base and in the air and you dont make that much money.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Yeah, Topgun was an awesome movie.

Dont even join yet buddy, its obvious that your not mature enough to decide yet.
 

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Every Air Force recruit wants to be a pilot. But they only let officers be pilots. Join ROTC and let them pay for college before you go in. Even if you can get a commission as an officer, there is still a lot of competition for the pilot jobs. They give you a lot of tests. They screen out a lot of people for traits that they can't help, like vision, depth perception, height/weight. There is also a type of intelligence test they give you where you look at pictures of complex geometric shapes, and pick out how they would look reversed or up-side-down.

If you just want to be a pilot of some sort, anyone with enough money to pay for the training hours can get a civilian pilot's license. The limiting factor is usually the money.
 

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They make a lot of money actually. I have a friend whos dad is a pilot and they have plenty of money.
 

Bible_Belt

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Yeah, the salaries for commercial pilots are high. But for someone starting out to get a basic pilot's license, it will cost them a few thousand dollars to pay for the required hours in the plane.

If you want to be a military pilot, you have a better chance of flying something in the Army. But if you join the Army, they are sending you to Iraq. I have two cousins there now. It's not a place you want to be. One cousin had his seargent bleed to death in his arms because they would not send the medevac helicopter. They said it was too risky. I think the real reason is that they were not going to risk the lives of an officer pilot and an expensive helicopter to save the life of a lowly infantry seargent. A shot-down helicopter makes news in the US; a shot-down seargent does not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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