Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Joining a club for the wrong reasons

silenthill

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Ok, so I joined this christian club becuase the girl who explained it was very hot. There are around 4 very pretty girls there, and that is pretty much the only reason I'm going. Its at some dudes house so its pretty laid back, but I don't give a sh*t about what they are talking about (hell I dont even really believe in god). But all of the people are nice, and I think this one girl there likes me, we talked for awhile. Should I keep going to this thing, or is it going to come back to haunt me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flexion_

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You can't ever tell anyone you reason for joining. The only reason to not go back is there is no potential women and you hate the club.

You joined so follow through until you either believe in god or get a date. :)
 

driveon

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Well if they're christians, they aren't going to put out, right?

What's the point?
 
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