"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Joining a club for the wrong reasons

silenthill

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Ok, so I joined this christian club becuase the girl who explained it was very hot. There are around 4 very pretty girls there, and that is pretty much the only reason I'm going. Its at some dudes house so its pretty laid back, but I don't give a sh*t about what they are talking about (hell I dont even really believe in god). But all of the people are nice, and I think this one girl there likes me, we talked for awhile. Should I keep going to this thing, or is it going to come back to haunt me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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flexion_

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You can't ever tell anyone you reason for joining. The only reason to not go back is there is no potential women and you hate the club.

You joined so follow through until you either believe in god or get a date. :)
 

driveon

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Well if they're christians, they aren't going to put out, right?

What's the point?
 
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