"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Join your school's Swing Dance club

Furyguy

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Simple tip here. It's a good one, though definitely aimed more for people still trying to get started at the game. You get the benefits of:

-basic dancing skills
-moving in conjunction with a partner
-improving your rhythm
-meeting lots of new girls
-something to on nights you're not partying/sarging/whatever
-comfort with touching/kino (very important for dancing)
-a new hobby to get good at
-a new talent, it really seems girls swoon for the guys who do this crap
-and seriously it's ****ing fun

If you're seriously in a sad, hopeless, way-below-AFC situation, this can be great in the sense that girls HAVE to talk to you, they HAVE to touch you, they HAVE to interact with you. No need to worry about approach anxiety or openers or getting shut down.

It's not club dancing, but it definitely improves your overall dancing skill and familiarity, and gives you tools to apply to other styles of dance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have some friends this that did this during college and met tons of girls. These classes are a great way to meet new girls and guys are often far outnumbered.
 

Bryce556

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This is acually great idea!. I swing dance with this club that has a place in town on sunday nights, i get min 1-2 numbers every sunday night! alot more girls then guys all the time. Great for gaining skills with interacting with people. mostly collage aged guys and girls attend the lessons and dance it seems.

lots of area to improve you dance skill and move into differnt styles and such. I mainily do Blues, Lindy hop, and east coast styles.
 
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