"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Join your school's Swing Dance club

Furyguy

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Simple tip here. It's a good one, though definitely aimed more for people still trying to get started at the game. You get the benefits of:

-basic dancing skills
-moving in conjunction with a partner
-improving your rhythm
-meeting lots of new girls
-something to on nights you're not partying/sarging/whatever
-comfort with touching/kino (very important for dancing)
-a new hobby to get good at
-a new talent, it really seems girls swoon for the guys who do this crap
-and seriously it's ****ing fun

If you're seriously in a sad, hopeless, way-below-AFC situation, this can be great in the sense that girls HAVE to talk to you, they HAVE to touch you, they HAVE to interact with you. No need to worry about approach anxiety or openers or getting shut down.

It's not club dancing, but it definitely improves your overall dancing skill and familiarity, and gives you tools to apply to other styles of dance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have some friends this that did this during college and met tons of girls. These classes are a great way to meet new girls and guys are often far outnumbered.
 

Bryce556

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This is acually great idea!. I swing dance with this club that has a place in town on sunday nights, i get min 1-2 numbers every sunday night! alot more girls then guys all the time. Great for gaining skills with interacting with people. mostly collage aged guys and girls attend the lessons and dance it seems.

lots of area to improve you dance skill and move into differnt styles and such. I mainily do Blues, Lindy hop, and east coast styles.
 
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