"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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Alright, here's one of the things I like to do. I buy guitars that I think are worthy of having and I hot rod then with better, more professional components. I've always wanted a bad ass Explorer, but I didn't know if they radical shape would be uncomfortable or not. So I bought a $400 one, it arrived, and it felt great when I tried it. Onto the lab, where I performed surgery on it and gave it active pickups, cooler knobs, a better switch, a metal jack plate, routed it for a 9V battery, painted it here, painted it there in flat black to match, and voila. A custom explorer:

http://oi43.tinypic.com/20zzpsk.jpg

It doesn't look this clean and pristine anymore because I play/record with it whenever I get the chance. The recording music is yet another occupation I enjoy doing. More on that later.

Thanks for reading!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eph

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Well other than constant work on that software project I mentioned on the last page, today I replaced the lock on the front door to my house. A key had broken inside the lock, so it obviously needed to be replaced. A little trickier than I imagined but not so hard. Had fun fixing something with my own two hands.
 
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