"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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Alright, here's one of the things I like to do. I buy guitars that I think are worthy of having and I hot rod then with better, more professional components. I've always wanted a bad ass Explorer, but I didn't know if they radical shape would be uncomfortable or not. So I bought a $400 one, it arrived, and it felt great when I tried it. Onto the lab, where I performed surgery on it and gave it active pickups, cooler knobs, a better switch, a metal jack plate, routed it for a 9V battery, painted it here, painted it there in flat black to match, and voila. A custom explorer:

http://oi43.tinypic.com/20zzpsk.jpg

It doesn't look this clean and pristine anymore because I play/record with it whenever I get the chance. The recording music is yet another occupation I enjoy doing. More on that later.

Thanks for reading!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well other than constant work on that software project I mentioned on the last page, today I replaced the lock on the front door to my house. A key had broken inside the lock, so it obviously needed to be replaced. A little trickier than I imagined but not so hard. Had fun fixing something with my own two hands.
 
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