"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well first few days of summer have gone pretty well been running and lifting a lot. My older sister came home from college and we went to the mall on friday. At the mall not only did i get some new clothing but I practiced making eye contact and approaching random chicks. Still working on conversational skills and # closing but im making solid improvements. Unfortunatly i did not get to talk to any of my 5 chicks. Gotta get some numbers and start setting up dates
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok so sorry for not posting in forever. I took a trip up to wyoming with my dad plus ive been working a lot so I have not been updating this journal.

However in terms of PUA it was a good week. I approached 3 new girls and got numbers from two of them. One was even at work when I was cleanng theaters! Also although she will be out of town till august HB-S and I have been texting a lot and Im getting some IOIs as well as the fact that she texts me first now. Ive been reconnecting with one of my ex girlfriends and we hung out (solid 8.5 btw). I feel that I am starting to become more alpha and more popular with people
 

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Hey guys i know its been a while so heres an update:

Bootcamp:
Got 8/10 in approaches in the last week here they are

1 and 2: I see these two girls while im at the grocery store and they look kinda like sisters:
Me: Hey are you guys sisters?
Them: No were not actually but we get it all the time
Me: Oh ok thats cool I'm John by the way
Them: Alex and Katelyn nice to meet you
Me: Where do you two go to school?
Them: My schools rival
Me: Oh i go to so and so, we domminated you guys in basketball this year.

And it went on for about two minutes before i pussied out without getting their numbers.

3: ( this one was a hired gun) At a bar/restaurant I walk in and see the hot hostess. We make eye contact and I smile and I start asking her whats good at the place and how long shes worked there. Unfortunately she asked how old I was and Im 17 while she was 19 so she kinda shyed away after that

4 and 5: Got another double in while i was working. I was selling tickets in the box office and these two girls approach

Me: hey how you ladies doin tonight?
Them: pretty good (smile and eye contact) can we get two tickets for snow white and the huntsman?
Me Sure thing
They start to pay with a bunch of one dollar bills
Me where were you two last night?
Them: start cracking up. hey dont judge us
Me: haha ok I promise I wont tell anyone itll be our secret

Unfortunately there movie was starting soon so they had to go but one of my female coworkers told me later about those girls talking about a "cute boy that sold us tickets"

6,7,8 were all in a mall with my friend who is kinda my wingman One was a hired gun but the other two I approached naturally.

Im hanging out with him again tonight and Im going to see if I can finish the challenge

Other Girls

HB S has been texting me non stop and she finally gets back from florida on tuesday so we have plans to hang out

HB A who was also on vacation while we were texting sent me pictures of her in a swimsuit asking me to send one too. I sent a token shirtless pic and I think she was impressed.

Im considering both of these girls as solid options and im getting IOIs from both of them. Im going to try and k close atleast one of them this week when i go hang out with them

Weightlifting running and sports:

My bench max has gone up to 180 lbs
and My Squat max has gone up to 235 lbs

I have been also running and practicing basketball a lot hopefully Ill be a starter once summer league starts up
 
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