From a glance your carbs don't look high and your fat doesn't look high, so your getting 1008cals from your 252g of protein and the rest doesn't look like much. I'd up your carbs for the day and cut them off at night.
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I was thinking perhaps it was normal but after what you said.. and then when I was in the gym yesterday I saw a guy lifting very difficult weights.. and he had damn impressive perfect form. Yep, I need to learn to control the weight better.Quagmire911 said:On the bench press, if it was difficult and form was sloppy stick with that weight next week and consolidate. You don't want to be climbing in weights whilst using incorrect form, will lead to big problems (hence box squats).
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If thats the case up the fat(a good deal) and protein and only have carbs post workoutJohnnyIrish said:Thanks Quag
Effort:
The only thing I'm afraid of is that I seem to be pretty sensitive to carbs and one of my goals is visible abs by summer.. If I add more carbs is there a chance they might be counter productive to this goal (I.E. they'll slow down my fat loss or put it at a stand still)?
Also does it look advisable to have 30+ grams of fast GI carbs (waxymaze) pre+post workout? (70g total)
It has given me energy.. I guess I just want to be reassured it won't get turned into fat (I'm pretty sure I burn it off but it can't hurt to ask).
Effort:EFFORT said:If thats the case up the fat(a good deal) and protein and only have carbs post workout
Veggies are a must eat them as much as you can.JohnnyIrish said:Effort:
I can still have low GI carbs like veggies or they get cut too?
I see most pwo shakes are about 2:1 or 3:1 ratio between protein to carbs. I'm guessing 1 scoop (38g) of carbs from the waxy maze should do the trick (plus 3 scoops of whey). Look about right?
Also how bad would it be to have carbs pre workout for energy? (or would that defeat what your trying to do here?)
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yeah thats the right idea, only thing needed now is the totals, from the looks of it the fat will probably need to be higher if you want gains. You can easily up the fat by adding more olive oil, fish oil, salad dressing, sausage, bacon, nuts to meals. Theres a lot of options with this. You could do a carb up day, or you could do high post workout carbs 125g+, mainly depends on what you'll be able to follow the best.JohnnyIrish said:I'm going to be doing more reading on zero carb dieting but in the mean time I've changed my diet as such:
Mea1 shake = 6 eggs, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin, 3 tablespoons olive oil + 5 fish oil caps
meal 2 = beef + veggies
meal 3 grilled chicken cesar salad with no crutons (just lettuce, dressing and chicken)
meal 4 shake = 5 eggs, 1scoop whey, 1 scoop casin, 3 tablespoons olive oil. + veggies
meal 5 chicken + veggies
Before bed = 5 fish oil caps.
On workout days, preworkout shake will contain 6 eggs + 2 scoops whey protein. Post workout shake will contain 2scoops of waxymaze (76gcarbs) and 3 scoops whey (69g protein)
That look about right?
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
*Sigh*. Depends on your perception ehhh?Mad Manic said:LOL this is just retarded you're skinny with no muscle and you're going on a very low carb diet to shed fat for 'the abs'. Ridiculous, it's just pointless and unhealthy. Bulk up for 2-3 years then go on a cut to lean out, not this rubbish. Forget about the summer, you're not gonna look that great in a fe wmonths anyway. A body is for life and not for summer, jesus.
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