From a glance your carbs don't look high and your fat doesn't look high, so your getting 1008cals from your 252g of protein and the rest doesn't look like much. I'd up your carbs for the day and cut them off at night.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was thinking perhaps it was normal but after what you said.. and then when I was in the gym yesterday I saw a guy lifting very difficult weights.. and he had damn impressive perfect form. Yep, I need to learn to control the weight better.Quagmire911 said:On the bench press, if it was difficult and form was sloppy stick with that weight next week and consolidate. You don't want to be climbing in weights whilst using incorrect form, will lead to big problems (hence box squats).
Keep it up.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If thats the case up the fat(a good deal) and protein and only have carbs post workoutJohnnyIrish said:Thanks Quag
Effort:
The only thing I'm afraid of is that I seem to be pretty sensitive to carbs and one of my goals is visible abs by summer.. If I add more carbs is there a chance they might be counter productive to this goal (I.E. they'll slow down my fat loss or put it at a stand still)?
Also does it look advisable to have 30+ grams of fast GI carbs (waxymaze) pre+post workout? (70g total)
It has given me energy.. I guess I just want to be reassured it won't get turned into fat (I'm pretty sure I burn it off but it can't hurt to ask).
Effort:EFFORT said:If thats the case up the fat(a good deal) and protein and only have carbs post workout
Veggies are a must eat them as much as you can.JohnnyIrish said:Effort:
I can still have low GI carbs like veggies or they get cut too?
I see most pwo shakes are about 2:1 or 3:1 ratio between protein to carbs. I'm guessing 1 scoop (38g) of carbs from the waxy maze should do the trick (plus 3 scoops of whey). Look about right?
Also how bad would it be to have carbs pre workout for energy? (or would that defeat what your trying to do here?)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yeah thats the right idea, only thing needed now is the totals, from the looks of it the fat will probably need to be higher if you want gains. You can easily up the fat by adding more olive oil, fish oil, salad dressing, sausage, bacon, nuts to meals. Theres a lot of options with this. You could do a carb up day, or you could do high post workout carbs 125g+, mainly depends on what you'll be able to follow the best.JohnnyIrish said:I'm going to be doing more reading on zero carb dieting but in the mean time I've changed my diet as such:
Mea1 shake = 6 eggs, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin, 3 tablespoons olive oil + 5 fish oil caps
meal 2 = beef + veggies
meal 3 grilled chicken cesar salad with no crutons (just lettuce, dressing and chicken)
meal 4 shake = 5 eggs, 1scoop whey, 1 scoop casin, 3 tablespoons olive oil. + veggies
meal 5 chicken + veggies
Before bed = 5 fish oil caps.
On workout days, preworkout shake will contain 6 eggs + 2 scoops whey protein. Post workout shake will contain 2scoops of waxymaze (76gcarbs) and 3 scoops whey (69g protein)
That look about right?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
*Sigh*. Depends on your perception ehhh?Mad Manic said:LOL this is just retarded you're skinny with no muscle and you're going on a very low carb diet to shed fat for 'the abs'. Ridiculous, it's just pointless and unhealthy. Bulk up for 2-3 years then go on a cut to lean out, not this rubbish. Forget about the summer, you're not gonna look that great in a fe wmonths anyway. A body is for life and not for summer, jesus.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.