I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
why don't you do just decline weighted situps or crunches...they have worked my core excellently. The roman chair crunch is just silly.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
3 weeks so far.. today is the start of my 4th week. I ate my normal meal plus my protein shake before my workout today and I felt like I had more energy. I think I just need to ear more carbs before working out (ha.. that and better quality sleep).Quagmire911 said:Congrats on the deads.
The squats could certainly have hampered your CNS. You could just have been having an off day as well. Don't worry about it unless your numbers stop going up. Heavy training will take its toll. How long have you been on this program now?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Quagmire911 said:For the stretches:
If training has made your back sore/stiff then the stretches will be beneficial and good active recovery. If the stretches are making your back sore then you won't be doing them right, although that isn't very likely. A few of them require good glute activation so make sure you are utilizing your ass correctly. It is very hard to injure yourself stretching, it only really happens if you do it too hard but I have never seen anyone do it.
Congrats on the PR's, don't worry about feeling tireder as long as you are progressing. As the cycle progresses you are likely to feel more run down, but it shouldn't be anything terrible.
What supplements are you taking? I can recommend a few that might help a bit. Warboss used to say his supp regime made him less rundown, and I would probably agree having trained on and off his recommendations.
Keep it up.
Ps-Have you tried out any box squats yet?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what are your carb/fat totals?JohnnyIrish said:My diet:
(some days vary time wise but this is pretty accurate for most days):
9am: shake - 4 organic high omega3 eggs, fiber powder, an apple, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin (76g protein)
After the shake I take 5 fish oil caps followed by one of my gnc mega men's multi vitamins.
snack- handful of almonds
noon - beef/chicken (I eat out with my coworkers but no fast food (minus quiznos). I always get beef or chicken and exchange fries for veggies.. I usually eat some carbs here in the form of bread for the beef or chicken I eat) Not sure on an exact protein number here..
3pm: Shake+ greenbeans or broccoli - 4 organic high omega3 eggs, fiber powder, 1/4 cup oats, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin (76g protein)
I take my other gnc gnc mega men's multi after my 3pm meal
6pm: Beef + greenbeans or broccoli - I precook my beef into 12 meals at a time. Each with 50+ grams of protein. Great advice from you guys on this forum.
9pm: Chicken + greenbeans or broccoli - I also cook chicken in my crock pot, 4 breasts at a time. The ones I don't eat I freeze in ziplock bags and eat later in the week. I think when I did the math here I got like 50+grams of protein.
Before bed: I take 5 more fish oil caps
Total:This puts me somewhere around 252g
..and If I guess I get about 50g protein from my lunch meal then I'd get around 305g protein/day (not including my almond snacks).
I currently weigh about 162lbs. So the target of 324g protein/day well.. I'm close.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.