I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
why don't you do just decline weighted situps or crunches...they have worked my core excellently. The roman chair crunch is just silly.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
3 weeks so far.. today is the start of my 4th week. I ate my normal meal plus my protein shake before my workout today and I felt like I had more energy. I think I just need to ear more carbs before working out (ha.. that and better quality sleep).Quagmire911 said:Congrats on the deads.
The squats could certainly have hampered your CNS. You could just have been having an off day as well. Don't worry about it unless your numbers stop going up. Heavy training will take its toll. How long have you been on this program now?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Quagmire911 said:For the stretches:
If training has made your back sore/stiff then the stretches will be beneficial and good active recovery. If the stretches are making your back sore then you won't be doing them right, although that isn't very likely. A few of them require good glute activation so make sure you are utilizing your ass correctly. It is very hard to injure yourself stretching, it only really happens if you do it too hard but I have never seen anyone do it.
Congrats on the PR's, don't worry about feeling tireder as long as you are progressing. As the cycle progresses you are likely to feel more run down, but it shouldn't be anything terrible.
What supplements are you taking? I can recommend a few that might help a bit. Warboss used to say his supp regime made him less rundown, and I would probably agree having trained on and off his recommendations.
Keep it up.
Ps-Have you tried out any box squats yet?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what are your carb/fat totals?JohnnyIrish said:My diet:
(some days vary time wise but this is pretty accurate for most days):
9am: shake - 4 organic high omega3 eggs, fiber powder, an apple, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin (76g protein)
After the shake I take 5 fish oil caps followed by one of my gnc mega men's multi vitamins.
snack- handful of almonds
noon - beef/chicken (I eat out with my coworkers but no fast food (minus quiznos). I always get beef or chicken and exchange fries for veggies.. I usually eat some carbs here in the form of bread for the beef or chicken I eat) Not sure on an exact protein number here..
3pm: Shake+ greenbeans or broccoli - 4 organic high omega3 eggs, fiber powder, 1/4 cup oats, 1 scoop whey, 1 scoop casin (76g protein)
I take my other gnc gnc mega men's multi after my 3pm meal
6pm: Beef + greenbeans or broccoli - I precook my beef into 12 meals at a time. Each with 50+ grams of protein. Great advice from you guys on this forum.
9pm: Chicken + greenbeans or broccoli - I also cook chicken in my crock pot, 4 breasts at a time. The ones I don't eat I freeze in ziplock bags and eat later in the week. I think when I did the math here I got like 50+grams of protein.
Before bed: I take 5 more fish oil caps
Total:This puts me somewhere around 252g
..and If I guess I get about 50g protein from my lunch meal then I'd get around 305g protein/day (not including my almond snacks).
I currently weigh about 162lbs. So the target of 324g protein/day well.. I'm close.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.