Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
It won't get easier as the weights get higher, put it that way 
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lol.. ok so thats more or less normal then. Well know I know what to expect (sort of).Quagmire911 said:It won't get easier as the weights get higher, put it that way![]()
From the sounds of things I'd have done the sameJohnnyIrish said:*update*
Due to: this event my working out and diet have been complete azz since Friday. I also have a bit of a stomach bug (I'm just not hungry) today so I can't eat much more then soup.. so no lifting today either.
Hopefully it'll be gone by today/tomorrow so I can quickly get back on track.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thanks Quagmire. I know one shouldn't compromise ones beliefs/discipline.. but then again every once in awhile one needs to stop and smell the roses so to speak. I try to keep reminding myself that life is a journey and not just a destination. In any event, looking back I'd do it(her) again in a heart beat lol.Quagmire911 said:From the sounds of things I'd have done the same.
Rough quote by Stronglifts: "It's not what you do between Christmas and New Year that counts, its what you do between New Year and Christmas".
I was afraid as the last time I worked deads was like 3 weeks ago (they have gone the longest of my 3 lifting days with out being worked out).. but after today I see your right as I didn't loose as much lifting pondage as I was fearing.Quagmire911 said:The weight will probably be back in under a week, or at least most of it anyway.
Strength shouldn't take long either. Couple of weeks max and you should be PR'ing again
Quagmire
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The strategy that's worked well for me in the past is cranking out the first 5, taking a 3-deep-breath break, cranking out another 5, 3 breath break, then do two at a time in similar fashion until I finished.Lighter squats (repsxlbs):
15 70
/\ Tough one. I had to slow down for the last 4 so I could catch my breath.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Doh.. your right. Thanks Quicksilver.Quagmire911 said:I think you meant thank you Quiksilver![]()
My stomach burns. Acid indigestion that hit me hard the Friday before new years. I thought it a bug or some virus or some crap.. but I feel no symptoms of a bug anymore and my stomach doesn't feel normal, it still burn every so often, Ive had some minor acid reflux, and my appetite is NOT what it should be. I've been taking a pepsid ac before bed each night, it helps.Quagmire911 said:What problems are you experiencing with your stomach?
If you add olive oil (fat) to whey then yes, it will take longer to digest.
If you are having problem with curls/forearm work then I'd try out hammer curls. Something like 3x10-12. They helped me out at one point and work both the forearms and biceps. Like this:
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/Brachioradialis/DBHammerCurl.html
Although I do this kneeling one arm at a time with my elbow supported on a bench.
As for adding in one HIIT session that should be alright although I'd do something like rowing 1 minute hard/1minutes easy and vice versa for 15-20 minutes. You can also try the elliptical or bike. Running can be hard on recovery time. Another option if you hate machines like me is to do the 100 burpee challenge
Quagmire
Ps:Today:
Deadlifts (reps/lbs):
10 bar
6 20
1 50
1 70
5 90
6 90
What is going on here? The bar weighs 44lbs...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.