If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.Now, is that gay?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.Now, is that gay?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what if you masterbate in the mirror repeating his name while having an orgasm? is it gay or extreme narsissism?John_Galt said:If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.
John_Galt said:That would be narcissism, but I wouldn't rule out the homosexual tendencies.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i keedJohn_Galt said:It's true though lol. Getting off on yourself, is narcissism. Homosexuality is attraction to OTHER people of the same gender.
So if you're jerking off at your hot body, and fingering your a$$hole trying to fulfill a fantasy of yourself pounding your tight virgin anus, it's still narcissism.