If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.Now, is that gay?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.Now, is that gay?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what if you masterbate in the mirror repeating his name while having an orgasm? is it gay or extreme narsissism?John_Galt said:If you're doing it because you think he's dreamy, yes. If you're doing it with the hopes of getting the same results he has got in his life, no.
John_Galt said:That would be narcissism, but I wouldn't rule out the homosexual tendencies.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i keedJohn_Galt said:It's true though lol. Getting off on yourself, is narcissism. Homosexuality is attraction to OTHER people of the same gender.
So if you're jerking off at your hot body, and fingering your a$$hole trying to fulfill a fantasy of yourself pounding your tight virgin anus, it's still narcissism.