"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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John Tucker Must Die

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Just wondering if anyone has ever heard / seen this movie?? I just downloaded it like last week, it's actually pretty cool. Some interesting things in the movie too, like the main character "John", is a total "DJ". Social proof, he has multiple plate spinning, confidence, also has a ton of charm and some ****y and funny things he says as well. You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way... Seriously u should pick up the movie sometime. Let me know what else you guys have to say about this movie if you've seen it... post your thoughts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way...
haven't seen it but this point is GOLD. You can heap compliments on a chick if its done in a non needy, confident fashion. The main problem with a "nice guy" is not the niceness but the lack of confidence and a sexual nature.
 

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vorbis said:
haven't seen it but this point is GOLD. You can heap compliments on a chick if its done in a non needy, confident fashion. The main problem with a "nice guy" is not the niceness but the lack of confidence and a sexual nature.
Amen to that!

That's probably why most of the guys who are always stuck in the friend zone are known as AFC! How they can fix this. Is finally getting laid, or if out of the game too long, get a friend close friends to hook you up, boost your confidence, and take it from there.

Payne
 

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I figured it would only be a matter of time before someone brought up that movie here.

Yeah, I saw it. I particularly enjoyed how the guy was DJ'ing and how the movie, disguised as a chick flick, blatently slammed women for being conniving and diabolical b!tches that play ridiculous games and employ obnoxious schemes. And, for all their meddling, the guy always came out as a DJ, or even more of a DJ. All their messing around backfired.

When I had to see it, I was initially thinking: "Aww crap. Here we go with another man-bashing high-school chick movie." I was pleasantly suprised. I could've done without the sappy "love" plotline, but all-in-all, it wasn't as bad as I expected.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It was a chick flick, but I don't have a problem with chick flicks....as long as the chicks are hot. :rock: haha!
 

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I was gonna post on this. Good thing I always do a search first eh?.....

I'm watching it right now, and he is entirely AFC

*spoilers*

-I mean, calling girls 5 times in a row.
-Circling houses
-appearing needy and try-hard.

We have to remember its just a movie. I used to get so screwed watching these fictional mack-characters on t.v....

However, he does have a lot of good characteristics, in particular his Confidence.

So, this is very much possible, but only b/c he was the captain of the team, had flawless looks, was majorly pre-selected, and was the top of the social ladder. So the coolest guy in the school buys a girl a heap of flowers :flowers: she would be flattered. But if the average Joe does it, it comes off as needy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonDan said:
Just wondering if anyone has ever heard / seen this movie?? I just downloaded it like last week, it's actually pretty cool. Some interesting things in the movie too, like the main character "John", is a total "DJ". Social proof, he has multiple plate spinning, confidence, also has a ton of charm and some ****y and funny things he says as well. You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way... Seriously u should pick up the movie sometime. Let me know what else you guys have to say about this movie if you've seen it... post your thoughts.
Nice, thanks for the recommendation, i'll look into it.
 
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