"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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John Tucker Must Die

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Just wondering if anyone has ever heard / seen this movie?? I just downloaded it like last week, it's actually pretty cool. Some interesting things in the movie too, like the main character "John", is a total "DJ". Social proof, he has multiple plate spinning, confidence, also has a ton of charm and some ****y and funny things he says as well. You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way... Seriously u should pick up the movie sometime. Let me know what else you guys have to say about this movie if you've seen it... post your thoughts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way...
haven't seen it but this point is GOLD. You can heap compliments on a chick if its done in a non needy, confident fashion. The main problem with a "nice guy" is not the niceness but the lack of confidence and a sexual nature.
 

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vorbis said:
haven't seen it but this point is GOLD. You can heap compliments on a chick if its done in a non needy, confident fashion. The main problem with a "nice guy" is not the niceness but the lack of confidence and a sexual nature.
Amen to that!

That's probably why most of the guys who are always stuck in the friend zone are known as AFC! How they can fix this. Is finally getting laid, or if out of the game too long, get a friend close friends to hook you up, boost your confidence, and take it from there.

Payne
 

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I figured it would only be a matter of time before someone brought up that movie here.

Yeah, I saw it. I particularly enjoyed how the guy was DJ'ing and how the movie, disguised as a chick flick, blatently slammed women for being conniving and diabolical b!tches that play ridiculous games and employ obnoxious schemes. And, for all their meddling, the guy always came out as a DJ, or even more of a DJ. All their messing around backfired.

When I had to see it, I was initially thinking: "Aww crap. Here we go with another man-bashing high-school chick movie." I was pleasantly suprised. I could've done without the sappy "love" plotline, but all-in-all, it wasn't as bad as I expected.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It was a chick flick, but I don't have a problem with chick flicks....as long as the chicks are hot. :rock: haha!
 

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I was gonna post on this. Good thing I always do a search first eh?.....

I'm watching it right now, and he is entirely AFC

*spoilers*

-I mean, calling girls 5 times in a row.
-Circling houses
-appearing needy and try-hard.

We have to remember its just a movie. I used to get so screwed watching these fictional mack-characters on t.v....

However, he does have a lot of good characteristics, in particular his Confidence.

So, this is very much possible, but only b/c he was the captain of the team, had flawless looks, was majorly pre-selected, and was the top of the social ladder. So the coolest guy in the school buys a girl a heap of flowers :flowers: she would be flattered. But if the average Joe does it, it comes off as needy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonDan said:
Just wondering if anyone has ever heard / seen this movie?? I just downloaded it like last week, it's actually pretty cool. Some interesting things in the movie too, like the main character "John", is a total "DJ". Social proof, he has multiple plate spinning, confidence, also has a ton of charm and some ****y and funny things he says as well. You would think the way he was acting he would be a complete AFC... But, i guess with the confidence mixed in it comes off in an amazing way... Seriously u should pick up the movie sometime. Let me know what else you guys have to say about this movie if you've seen it... post your thoughts.
Nice, thanks for the recommendation, i'll look into it.
 
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