"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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john anthony meets a looksmaxxer whilst he's streaming

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M,ade me lol

John super insecure and constantly qualifying himself and failing to control his paid wife (who seems to want the streamers) whilst he's trying to network


Had to do some research on that clav guy after. He's a 'looksmaxxer' dude. Bangs very hot girls. Bity of a weird dude (autism? just super narcissistic in an pat bateman way??) but it doesn't matter due to his looks. Seems to have blew up on social media and made like 35k in donations in one stream the other day. He has more surgeries planned soon
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That guy is lookxmaxed, but he's not friendly.
He's not open to learning about other people's lives.
And after "****ing 2,000 women" in his life, it won't be any good when he realizes his appearance is gone.
Guys, always invest in your appearance to be presentable, but if there's one thing that will make you more valuable, it will always be your ability to make friends and maintain relationships, not just with women, but with men too.
Be that person people want to be with.

Do you want to be that handsome guy who ****s 2,000 girls, or another guy others want to be with and who ****s girls?
 

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That guy is lookxmaxed, but he's not friendly.
He's not open to learning about other people's lives.
And after "****ing 2,000 women" in his life, it won't be any good when he realizes his appearance is gone.
Guys, always invest in your appearance to be presentable, but if there's one thing that will make you more valuable, it will always be your ability to make friends and maintain relationships, not just with women, but with men too.
Be that person people want to be with.

Do you want to be that handsome guy who ****s 2,000 girls, or another guy others want to be with and who ****s girls?
think you've got it a bit mixed up.
The older guy is a 'famous' PUA (john anthony) who always brags about his 2000 lay count any chance he gets (although it's pure fantasy. He's an awful PUA with some of the worst infeild you'll see and has been exposed to be lying about everything, many times)

The good looking dude isn't the one bragging about his lay count (although he could ACTUALLY reach 2000 extremely easy if he wanted too). He's just a weird, kinda of autistic, 'narcy'/slightly unlikeable looksmaxxer/new 'streamer' who is blowing up. He doesn't appear to WANT to bang a tonne of girls and even say it isn't hard or impressive or anything to stride towards

ALso, i'm just amazed about the whole 'streaming' thing and how kids make so much money nowadays. I kind of assumed it was just girls.

Random girls like this who literally bought flash expenseive car at like 17 just from money she made from making vids where she 'dances' or lip'syncs lol

http://instagr.am/p/DR3PVB1jpg3/

But i didn't realise even good looking guys and streamers and 'blackpillers' were making bank! As I say, that dude in the vid made like 35k USD from a single stream recently (which I gather he's use for his next major surgery to get evne better looking lol)
 

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edit: I might be slightly wrong about that clavs views! (or he at least appeard to contradict himself a bit?) - Just read that he claims 200 lays and he's only like 19 or 20 lol. I guess in his defense he doesn't have to put any effort into it so it might be hard to NOT get laid a tonne!
 

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ps - I'm hoping they colab and we finally get an answer on the 'game' vs 'looks' debate.
Fomr what i've seen of his streams, I'd put my house on clav obliterating john anthony! (or any other PUA, to be quite honest)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you feel good about yourself, it will show up in the way you look.
 

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Nothing wrong with looks maxing, but you shouldn’t do it solely for the ladies. Think James Bond, you should be a connoisseur who appeals to both genders. You should take getting high fives and compliments from the brothers as a fashion victory over just getting simple flirtations over the women. You want to get that swagger on with a diverse group of people.
 

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If you feel good about yourself, it will show up in the way you look.

One good way to do that is a good shower, fresh clothes that are ironed, updated wardrobe so to speak, nice hat, decent watch and taking pointers from the book ‘ How to win friends and influence people’.
 
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