"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Jogging: Which is better? Gravel or Pavement?

FM 3321

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2004
Messages
458
Reaction score
3
Location
Texas
I've been running for a month now and during that time I had some knee problems. I was advised to get some good running shoes versus the el cheapo ones I bought in the first place and it really helped my knees out. Also I've started taking a glucosamine supplment pack to go along with that. I generally run 3.6 miles 4 times a week in the morning and one route I run is on hard pavement and the other is a gravel road.

The answer to this question might be obvious but is it my imagination or is gravel much better for your knees than hard pavement even with the right shoes? The only problem with gravel is that you have a better chance of losing your footing and hurting your ankle but for my knees the gravel trail seems so much better.

Looking online I haven't been able to find much information on this so if anyone knows much about this I'd love to know. Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

immrtlwun

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
289
Reaction score
0
Gravel has a lot more give to it as far as your foot landing goes. The pavement can't go anywhere when your foot lands on it, but the gravel can. Grass or clay is even better to run on. I ran cross country from 4th grade through high school and the best feeling, as far as running goes, was running barefoot on a clay/mud mix. Try it sometime. Find a park or something soon after it rains and run on a muddy trail.
 

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
You pretty much answered your own question!

If you're doing it for fat loss though it's not the best.
 

FM 3321

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2004
Messages
458
Reaction score
3
Location
Texas
Well it looks like gravel is indeed better. I'll start running on that route exclusively.
 

Adam B

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
90
Reaction score
3
Kerpal said:
Neither, distance running is bad for you.
Do not listen to this person.

It really doesn't matter which surface you choose, because the human body is very intelligent and actually lightens the landing all by itself on harder surfaces. The impace forces will be roughly the same no matter what surface you choose, contrary to popular belief.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Throttle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2006
Messages
1,787
Reaction score
11
Adam B said:
It really doesn't matter which surface you choose, because the human body is very intelligent and actually lightens the landing all by itself on harder surfaces. The impace forces will be roughly the same no matter what surface you choose, contrary to popular belief.
the human body cannot suspend the laws of physics.

the OP nailed it, softer surfaces are better for wear and tear on your knees, while on looser surfaces you may lose your footing and really bust something up. Ideally you want to run on a soft, stable surface. and definitely get some good shoes.
 

FM 3321

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2004
Messages
458
Reaction score
3
Location
Texas
Adam B said:
Do not listen to this person.

It really doesn't matter which surface you choose, because the human body is very intelligent and actually lightens the landing all by itself on harder surfaces. The impace forces will be roughly the same no matter what surface you choose, contrary to popular belief.
Are you sure about the surface? If I ran on top of a mile long mattress versus a stretch of a concrete freeway I would think that the impact would be much less on the mattress.

As for the long distance running, I actually enjoy it when I'm out there and a good run makes me feel better throughout the day and actually motivates me to eat healthier. I woke up late and didn't run this morning and I'm craving all kinds of bad breakfast food. I'll be running tomorrow morning for sure.

Throttle said:
the human body cannot suspend the laws of physics.

the OP nailed it, softer surfaces are better for wear and tear on your knees, while on looser surfaces you may lose your footing and really bust something up. Ideally you want to run on a soft, stable surface. and definitely get some good shoes.

Yeah the gravel like I said does feel better on the knees. I just have to be alert to the constantly changing surface. Anyway I need to focus on eating less calories because I'm really fvcking up on that during the weekends.
 

Adam B

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
90
Reaction score
3
Throttle said:
the human body cannot suspend the laws of physics.

the OP nailed it, softer surfaces are better for wear and tear on your knees, while on looser surfaces you may lose your footing and really bust something up. Ideally you want to run on a soft, stable surface. and definitely get some good shoes.
The body craves stability. If you're on an unstable surface, like a rough trail, your body will land a little harder so it can stabilize itself better. If the surface is already stable, the foot will actually roll differently and lighter. I know you guys might think this all crap, but it's true. Obviously a matress would be different though, but you're more likely to get injured on a mile long mattress than a stretch of asphalt.

Also, very few running injuries are caused by "landing shock", most are caused by tightness, or weakness in a certain structure or muscle fiber.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top