"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Job interview

Bling

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I have a job interview tomorrow. First one after I put applications in at over 10 places 2 months ago. I guess they're hiring because the college kids are going to college.


Any suggestions/help? It's at CVS.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChapStick

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Just google for tips on how to present yourself well at a job interview...

Generally dress well, be well groomed, and arrive 15 mins early for your interview.
 

The Forms

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At a place like CVS I wouldn't fret too much. As long as you seem like a stable person with a car who won't be TOO much on a hassle to have on board they'll hire you. Jobs that don't pay well aren't very choosy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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slightoverbite

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What The Forms says is correct. But I worked at Walgreens for a while (it is similar to CVS). And they required me to piss in a cup once a month on a random date, make sure my work uniform was tucked in at all times, and I couldn't use my cell phone during working hours.

Work sux.
 

Bling

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I got the job. They want me to work W, Th, and a weekend day from 4-10:30. Thank God it's my Senior year, or else my grades would suffer.
 

navyseal2101

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Neg your boss, lower thier value then youll look like a better candidate for hiring.
 

ViciousDADogg

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Bosses are like women, both when hiring and when working. Neg those hoes. Play 'em...


With any job, they want you to work and they don't want to pay you for your work. Always show hi value, so that people value you. When they value you, they value what you do. Being NICE and doing everything does not get you higher in the ranks. If you have to step outside your job description, make sure they know it and appericate what you do, and that you get rewarded.

In other words, if you doing something out of norm, make sure they are not setting a new frame with you. Remember, they are using your time to get work done, either they respect it, or else you don't do the job.


NICE guy bull sh1t don't get you anywhere. In my AFC days I staid over time on christmas eve to get the bosses van fixed... Then in February I got fired on my birthday for dropping a printer. Never be nice - in fact, once you a playah, that NICE idea isn't really nice anymore, if you know what I mean.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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navyseal2101

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Well I was kidding about the neg, I told my boss "this is a great place to work... if you have no aspirations in life." and she didnt get he joke, so make sure your boss knows your kidding. I didnt get fired or anything but now she treats me like **** or just ignores me. Im quitting anyway. GL at CVS though, do you get discounts on condoms?
 

ViciousDADogg

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Nah nah. Bosses are sales men. They are special type of people. Kind of like players.. They demand respect, because it buys them your time for free.


You say something and they make a serious stance, that's to setup a frame and make you back off, so that they can treat you like crap.


Prove me wrong.
 
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