"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Job: for the youth
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
That's like 6 right there. Oh wait....you're too good for these jobs, correct?
The_flying_dutchman
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You know what's frustrating? Every employer wants someone with experience, but how does a young cat get experience if noone will give them an entry position?
What I did was look for work through my community college when I was taking classes before I went to university. Community college jobs often don't require any experience and can be diverse such as office assistant or lab assistant which is way more marketable than some fast food job.
Also, this was back when I was 18 which was 12 years ago. It was hard then, and I can only imagine just how hard it is now.
Keep trying an don't let rejections discourage you. Rejection is a natural part of life.
BeDJ
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It's a job no one wants to do. You get paid to develop communication skills and rejection tolerance.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
