"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jet-lag

Strelok

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Hey guys any of you ever suffered because of that? they told that it takes no more than few days to disappear but after more than a week I still have problems to fall asleep the right time even if Im getting up at a reasonable time in the morning.

I heard that there is a drug for jet-lag but I would keep that stuff as a last resource.
Any other option possibly natural?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When I travel, I put myself on the local time right away and never take naps. I also like to have a glass or two of red wine.
 

JustLurk

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Try to get exposure to the sun, that way your mind will be able to naturally process the difference in sleep-time.
 
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