Jerking had no effect on two minute man

[backseatjuan]

Ok, so back in november I lasted 1.5 hours on the back seat of my car. Even as recently as december I couldn't cvm with a pro for 1 hour. Now, with my gf, I last on average 2 or 3 minutes. I thought I'll jerk off, and I did, and it has absolutely no effect on my time. The only thing it had effect on is a crappier orgasm.

I think I know what's up. I'm used to her, and feel absolutely safe near her. With others I had anxiety, which pushed me to last long long.

What to do?

 

[Upside]

Fvcking ironic, since I have gone through the same thing as you are. I think it just boils down to the fact you no longer unconsciously have performance anxiety. Some guys can't get it up, and others can but last forver until they no longer feel "pressure" so to speak.

 

[Aaron B]

i recommend kegel exercises

 

[pdx1138]

I had that happen as well.

strange.

 

[Racecar]

For me, the only relevant factors in deciding the duration of a sexual experience are:

1) Time elapsed since last orgasm
2) The amount of friction/pressure applied to the penis during sex

To the first point, if you haven't released in a while, you may be more sensitive to pressure and orgasm sooner. I'm no doctor, but that's typically been the case for me. Someone should perform an experiment and give us some raw data. Control for ALL variables and see if this holds true. Unfortunately I don't have a worthy research subject, so I can't do this myself

To the second point, it could be the girl. Obviously if she's very tight, you won't be able to last long. You'll be simply going through the motions if she's all stretched out.

If you want to last longer, I suggest you try a different position or technique before going for whatever you're most comfortable with. Calibrate the foreplay differently. I used to date a girl who was tight as a knot. In order to post respectable times, I created mental diversions for myself such as rehashing multiplication tables or relisting the entire 1992 Dallas Cowboys roster. Thinking about men while having sex probably isn't good for your mental health, but diversions can be an excellent way of extending your time in the bedroom.

 

[Inlone]

Some anti-depressants will make you last longer. Seriously (I'm looking at you, Effexor). Harder to have a good orgasm though.

 

[pdx1138]

I find that if I've had a few drinks with a good buzz going on I can last as long as I want.

 

[Inlone]

Even as recently as december I couldn't cvm with a pro for 1 hour.

What is cvm?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Stress will affect your performance. Any man who is under stress will tend to orgasm quicker or he may not even be able to get it up, at all. Take a mental note of your life, recently. Anything changed?

 

[Packers2010]

i remember one time i was going at it pretty hard and nothing was going on.. i mean it felt good but i wasn't really going to ***. then she moved her hips and my peen went deeper into her. i insta came right there and then. best feeling EVER!

i don't know what the fark she did but it worked.

i would say that your girl knows what she is doing. but also try using a rubber. that works for me.

 

[backseatjuan]

Ok, so I increased time a little bit, not much, but enough for her to cvm. Little more foreplay so she's wetter, and I don't go quick, slowly, a bit faster than 1 per second. After second orgasm I can go quicker and still last longer.

 

[roman81]

Ok, so back in november I lasted 1.5 hours on the back seat of my car. Even as recently as december I couldn't cvm with a pro for 1 hour. Now, with my gf, I last on average 2 or 3 minutes. I thought I'll jerk off, and I did, and it has absolutely no effect on my time. The only thing it had effect on is a crappier orgasm.

I think I know what's up. I'm used to her, and feel absolutely safe near her. With others I had anxiety, which pushed me to last long long.

What to do?

Bro, i hope this helps.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=71762