Jelousy as a tool

[Lil Magic]

I've noticed that i'm really the jealous type, so I was wondering: would it be effective to use jelousy as tool to get a girl? I don't recall seeing it anywhere on the site.

 

[KontrollerX]

Yes it can be an effective tool and I'm pretty sure many posters here have brought it up as such.

Not sure why you haven't seen any posts about this though.

Anyway in your situation using jealousy could be dangerous as what will you do if a chick decides to make you jealous right back?

See I think this will throw a wrench in your plans because you being the jealous type will have your emotions engaged if a chick does this to you and as its often pointed out when the emotion of anger is introduced thinking and analysis is shut down which puts you at a big disadvantage and her at an extreme advantage.

So yeah unless you can beat the jealousy thing in your own life I wouldn't try it dude.

Stick with other tactics in the Sosuave arsenal.

 

[DavenJuan]

Yes it can be an effective tool and I'm pretty sure many posters here have brought it up as such.

Not sure why you haven't seen any posts about this though.

Anyway in your situation using jealousy could be dangerous as what will you do if a chick decides to make you jealous right back?

See I think this will throw a wrench in your plans because you being the jealous type will have your emotions engaged if a chick does this to you and as its often pointed out when the emotion of anger is introduced thinking and analysis is shut down which puts you at a big disadvantage and her at an extreme advantage.

So yeah unless you can beat the jealousy thing in your own life I wouldn't try it dude.

Stick with other tactics in the Sosuave arsenal.

i have to disagree with jealousy being an effective tool.

i think that completely deframes you from what this site is all about.

spending time and energy in hopes to make someone else feel a certain way about you is not what you should be trying to accomplish.

better yourself in everything you do. if a girl/guy/whoever happens to get jealous, enjoy the fact that your everyday activities controlled the emotions of someone else.

but IMO "Purposely" spending time on someone elses emotions seem pointless. you dont need anyones validation

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Jealousy is for AFC's that are scared that someone will steal they're girlfriend.

A true DJ knows that noone can steal his women.

 

[War Against Betaism]

The tool is effective if you can properly handle its power. The way I see it, it's the big gun that not many people are capable of even holding. I tried making a jealous girl one time, it kind of worked out. She ended up svcking my **** lol. But I personally wouldn't recommend to have others try it out; it's literally hit or miss, but moreso miss.

 

[john paul]

Jeliously is an effective tool to get what you want.

My girlfriend left me for another guy. It hurt but instead of falling apart and showing her I was upset I went on with my life and saw some other girls. As soon as she heard I was with other girls she came running back. Begging to take her back.


Her being jealious that other girls had me made her want me, and brought her back to me without me having to raise a finger.

 

[KontrollerX]

Jealousy is simply one of many tools that can be used.

Thats what this site is about.

Giving men options and techniques to use if they need them.

It doesn't mean anyone has to use jealousy.

Use what works for you is basically the message of this site.

Its like VU says.

All the advice here is simply weapons in a DJ's arsenal.

Sometimes the grenades aren't right for the job so you grab the Uzi.

Whatever technique works.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Jeliously is an effective tool to get what you want.

yea ur right about this jealousy.

But if ur talking about being jealous about your girlfriend thats baaaad

Jealousy is for AFC's that are scared that someone will steal they're girlfriend.

A true DJ knows that noone can steal his women.

 

[DavenJuan]

Jealousy is simply one of many tools that can be used.

Thats what this site is about.

Giving men options and techniques to use if they need them.

It doesn't mean anyone has to use jealousy.

Use what works for you is basically the message of this site.

Its like VU says.

All the advice here is simply weapons in a DJ's arsenal.

Sometimes the grenades aren't right for the job so you grab the Uzi.

Whatever technique works.

i agree that this site should promote different "tools" that gets the job done...

but dont you think using "jealousy" as a "tool" promotes the wrong concept here??

spending energy on such a thing doesnt help you realize YOUR THE PRIZE.

it gives the other party the advantage (whether they know it or not)

you are doing some form of action to impress/get attention/etc and hoping that it will present false emotions

 

[john paul]

yea ur right about this jealousy.

But if ur talking about being jealous about your girlfriend thats baaaad

Yea get rid of all the jealous feelings you have inside you.


You can't be jealous and also be confident. Because theres no such thing as a DJ with no confidence.

 

[KontrollerX]

I think you've got a point to your whole post davejuan if you are the DJ that is looking for a serious committed relationship.

However I see no problem with playing the jealousy game if you are simply a DJ that is out there having fun with women and looking for fvck buddies.

In those instances jealousy can really work on the fragile female emotions and keep the FB ride going with them longer before it inevitably fizzles out.

So to clarify I agree with you that its not a good tool in the DJ arsenal if you are trying to establish a mature healthy relationship with a woman but on the other hand if you are simply fooling around with some random slvts that you find it can be a fun tool to use.