"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jeans in the summer.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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R1ch4rd

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Yes because you be cooler and more stylish wearing shorts. Obviosuly when its raining or in the evening jeans would be okay, but during the day shorts probably be best. Depends on where you at.
 

thebestthing

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I figured. I've lived in Tenessee all my life, and alwyas been a loser wearing jeans. Moving to Texas helped as I started a new look, but its summer again and everytime I look at shorts I just don't look right in them. Any style suggestions?
 

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haha..i never wear jeans...even at night..just not used tot hem...but im starting to this summer

i usually wear shorts

all i know is....girls don't like guys in capris...but i dont like capris either

I GOT IT...GENIUS IDEA

you like jeans but not shorts...but want to wear shorts

JEAN SHORTS....GENIUS..IM A REAL MAN OF GENIUS:yes:

buutttttt....i heard on some fashion show..that jean shorts are a no no...but i think that applies only when you're a little older cause i see lots of guys still wearing them...if there are guys where you live that wear em...sure...if there aren't, still why not? You're an individual so **** the rest of them...literally too =)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Five To One

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Many style of shorts. I probably dont like 80% of the style they come in. You just need to go shopping and find what you like, whether it be shorter or longer in length and number of pockets and sh1t. My preference is right at knee level when im standing and two pockets in front and two in back. I think it looks rediculious when you have 7 pockets that you will never need.

-stay away from jean shorts, i dont even know why they still sell them
-dark brown, brown, khaki, and plaid, are the best colors to look for. But be careful with plaid, its easy to get carried away with them.


Also try athletic shorts. I wear a waist size smaller than I should and it makes me look pretty athletic even though im outa shape.


*also make sure you are wearing the right kind of shoes to be wearing shorts. I have shoes that I wear with jeans and shoes I wear with shorts.
 

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Seeing as I'm in the UK, jeans/trousers is an all year thing. Shorts are reserved for heatwaves, and even then only for real casual situations. Chinos and linen trousers are the way forward in the heat. Smart, stylish and still keep you cool.
 

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jeffthechef said:
haha..i never wear jeans...even at night..just not used tot hem...but im starting to this summer

i usually wear shorts

all i know is....girls don't like guys in capris...but i dont like capris either

I GOT IT...GENIUS IDEA

you like jeans but not shorts...but want to wear shorts

JEAN SHORTS....GENIUS..IM A REAL MAN OF GENIUS:yes:

buutttttt....i heard on some fashion show..that jean shorts are a no no...but i think that applies only when you're a little older cause i see lots of guys still wearing them...if there are guys where you live that wear em...sure...if there aren't, still why not? You're an individual so **** the rest of them...literally too =)
I'm a style addict, and jean shorts don't look good with anything, unless you go for a country singer look. Its not about being an individual. Stay away from jean shorts.
And what are you talking about girls don't like capris? Hell of a lot better than athletic shorts...athletic shorts are practically never good in the way of style.
Jeans in the summer only fly on rainy/crap days
how i dress with jeans on rainy days: http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q246/maddmurago/Style/2.jpg
 

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hahaha jean shorts, please do not do that.

Just make sure you get a cool normal pair of shorts and wear them, trust me you don't look stupid and over a week you'll just get used to them and think you look cool or even normal in them lol.

Your just not used to it, trust me you look fine just try it for a week unless of course you are fat or have ugly legs lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thebestthing

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I like the shoes too, I wouldn't mind a pair.

I know what you mean by certain shoes to go with shorts. What kind of shoes would those be? I noticed the shoes I have right now don't go to well with shorts.
I'm also taking a girl out on Thursday but it looks like I'll be stuck in jeans.
fvck :/
 

S.Y.L

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saturos said:
I'm a style addict, and jean shorts don't look good with anything, unless you go for a country singer look. Its not about being an individual. Stay away from jean shorts.
And what are you talking about girls don't like capris? Hell of a lot better than athletic shorts...athletic shorts are practically never good in the way of style.
Jeans in the summer only fly on rainy/crap days
how i dress with jeans on rainy days: http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q246/maddmurago/Style/2.jpg
You got some decent style. I like the shoes.
 

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saturos-where did you learn how to do dress? books? Any particular ones for a newbie. Maybe you should make a thread about it and make it a sticky(just basics, unwritten rules like the jean thing, pointers for the casual look you got going). I as well as some others, would really appreciate it. :]
 

Analyzeit

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My friends would stop hanging out with me if i started wearing that lol.

No offence but can't say i'd be seen in that, maybe it's just different where I'm from.

2nd layer shirt down so far, light jeans, but maybe i'd wear those shoes just to get a few laughs lol. Other then that just naaa.

Just putting my opinion out there
 

I'm Charming

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ssj4halo said:
saturos-where did you learn how to do dress? books? Any particular ones for a newbie. Maybe you should make a thread about it and make it a sticky(just basics, unwritten rules like the jean thing, pointers for the casual look you got going). I as well as some others, would really appreciate it. :]
www.kinowear.com

I'm pretty sure he's a member.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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S.Y.L

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I hate kinowear, they are dress really bad there, and look awful imo
 

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Kinowear is a pretty good site, they have a good sense of style and how to match clothes.
 

intrextrovert

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I wear jean shorts practically 24/7 haha. I'm sure there are other things that would look better but they're all-purpose and have never given me any trouble.
 

saturos

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I read all the stuff on kinowear...just don't take it too literally, as a lot of the members on kinowear dress a bit too overboard for my tastes.

FIT IS KING. You want the clothes to skim your body. This year was the first year i started caring about how i dressed. I used to have a rotation of bland shirts i wore every week. Even as the year has gone on, i'm still on very few shirts just because a lot of teh shirts i have bought are not good fits and i regret the buys.
High school chicks dig dress shirts too, if you can pull them off. I get complimented on how i dress all the time :D.
Also, expensive =/= good. One of my favorite stores is kohls. That place is awesome.

Damn i need a job.
Post pictures and i'll give you some pointers if you'd like.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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