"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jeanie Buss: Aging 304 Sports Team Co-Owner Gives Glimpse Into a Version of Future for Many Millennial Women

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Jeanie Buss is a 62 year old woman who is one of the co-owners of the Los Angeles Lakers professional basketball team. She and her siblings inherited the team as a result of her father's death in 2013. Her father (Jerry Buss) owned 66% of the Los Angeles Lakers from 1979-2013.

Jeanie never had kids. She had one short marriage end in a divorce and a 15+ year non-marital relationship. Other than those relationships, she had a lot of shorter term relationships/interactions and married a famous comedian & actor last year.

She also worked many hours, describing one period of her life when she worked 14+ hour days most days for 4 years straight.

She posed for Playboy as a 33 year old woman in 1995.

Other than being wealthy and dating famous people, Jeanie Buss is a Baby Boomer woman who has acted like a typical Millennial woman. She has been promiscuous and career oriented, which sounds like a lot of Millennial women today. She made extra money from getting naked, like Millennial women now do on OnlyFans. Jeanie Buss is the future for a lot of Millennial women.

Fresh & Fit tends to have younger 304s on the program and Michael Sartain/Rollo do episodes with sometimes 30 something 304s. This is a more exclusive, more in-depth version of a Fresh & Fit or Sartain/Rollo episode and it covers a wider range of topics.

I recommend watching clips from her interview with Graham Bensinger.



 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's got a good plastic surgeon.
Yes, she does.

I also found her selection of clothing for this interview to be interesting.

She wore an open blouse in which she is drawing attention to her chest/breasts. That's a 304 clothing selection. Also, in prior generations, 55+ year old women used to dress with more class and modesty.
 

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Yes, she does.

I also found her selection of clothing for this interview to be interesting.

She wore an open blouse in which she is drawing attention to her chest/breasts. That's a 304 clothing selection. Also, in prior generations, 55+ year old women used to dress with more class and modesty.
She's doing her best with a workout regime for grandma bods.
Boobs a saggin' but it's still better than implant scars.
 

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Boobs a saggin' but it's still better than implant scars.
A breast lift would be the solution for that. A lot of middle class or upper middle class or higher women in their 40s+ could benefit from a breast lift.

Jeanie was somewhat ahead of her time in education. She does have a bachelor's degree in business from University of Southern California. It was still more challenging to get a bachelor's degree in the early 1980s than post 1990 when the bachelor's degree got noticeably watered down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Exactly what for? Any interesting insights?
Plenty of interesting insights.

You can learn....
  • Why an early 30s millionaire heiress and business executive decided to pose nude for Playboy, the 1990s version of putting nudes out on OnlyFans.
  • How she chose career over motherhood and how her careerism caused her first marriage to fail.
  • Some details of her perspective on big events in the Los Angeles Lakers franchise during the past 45 years
  • Why she has a long lost sibling
 
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