"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jeanie Buss: Aging 304 Sports Team Co-Owner Gives Glimpse Into a Version of Future for Many Millennial Women

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Jeanie Buss is a 62 year old woman who is one of the co-owners of the Los Angeles Lakers professional basketball team. She and her siblings inherited the team as a result of her father's death in 2013. Her father (Jerry Buss) owned 66% of the Los Angeles Lakers from 1979-2013.

Jeanie never had kids. She had one short marriage end in a divorce and a 15+ year non-marital relationship. Other than those relationships, she had a lot of shorter term relationships/interactions and married a famous comedian & actor last year.

She also worked many hours, describing one period of her life when she worked 14+ hour days most days for 4 years straight.

She posed for Playboy as a 33 year old woman in 1995.

Other than being wealthy and dating famous people, Jeanie Buss is a Baby Boomer woman who has acted like a typical Millennial woman. She has been promiscuous and career oriented, which sounds like a lot of Millennial women today. She made extra money from getting naked, like Millennial women now do on OnlyFans. Jeanie Buss is the future for a lot of Millennial women.

Fresh & Fit tends to have younger 304s on the program and Michael Sartain/Rollo do episodes with sometimes 30 something 304s. This is a more exclusive, more in-depth version of a Fresh & Fit or Sartain/Rollo episode and it covers a wider range of topics.

I recommend watching clips from her interview with Graham Bensinger.



 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's got a good plastic surgeon.
Yes, she does.

I also found her selection of clothing for this interview to be interesting.

She wore an open blouse in which she is drawing attention to her chest/breasts. That's a 304 clothing selection. Also, in prior generations, 55+ year old women used to dress with more class and modesty.
 

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Yes, she does.

I also found her selection of clothing for this interview to be interesting.

She wore an open blouse in which she is drawing attention to her chest/breasts. That's a 304 clothing selection. Also, in prior generations, 55+ year old women used to dress with more class and modesty.
She's doing her best with a workout regime for grandma bods.
Boobs a saggin' but it's still better than implant scars.
 

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Boobs a saggin' but it's still better than implant scars.
A breast lift would be the solution for that. A lot of middle class or upper middle class or higher women in their 40s+ could benefit from a breast lift.

Jeanie was somewhat ahead of her time in education. She does have a bachelor's degree in business from University of Southern California. It was still more challenging to get a bachelor's degree in the early 1980s than post 1990 when the bachelor's degree got noticeably watered down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Exactly what for? Any interesting insights?
Plenty of interesting insights.

You can learn....
  • Why an early 30s millionaire heiress and business executive decided to pose nude for Playboy, the 1990s version of putting nudes out on OnlyFans.
  • How she chose career over motherhood and how her careerism caused her first marriage to fail.
  • Some details of her perspective on big events in the Los Angeles Lakers franchise during the past 45 years
  • Why she has a long lost sibling
 
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