Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Jealousy=wuss

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
The most powerful emotion out there bar none is jealousy. The fastest way to burn out any relationship and destroy your confidence, DHV spikes, prizability,and inner game.

A little hint of jealousy can be beneficial to refuel some attraction but be warned exposing too much of that emotion could lead to the risk of going temporarily insane.

Lots of guys get all bent out of shape if their girls talk to men or get hit on by men. I personally encourage it, I told my main woman to remember the exact pickup line if at all possible. REALITY- if a chic is remotely good looking sooner or later she is bound to be hit on, thats a fact. If that bothers you, might as well put the dunce cap on now. Why is it okay for a girl to make out with another chic, but if she french kisses a guy our blood begins to boil.

I was out in the club, my girl was all over me.........I literally had to push her away from time to time as I wanted to scope the bar for new fish. So she asked a younger friend to dance and sure enough he began making out with her on the dancefloor out of my visual site............or so she thought. Now my first impulse was to run up there and do a RAMBO and get all up in their BIZNAZ, but I chilled............just watched. When she came back to our table she acted like everything was cool. I voiced my opinion by saying "did u enjoy dancing............I mean kissing". She gave me that old....what are you talking 'bout look. Then she tried to downplay it, and finally ended up with well I am going home with you routine.

It truly is the double standard in the purest sense. Its okay if we do it but not the other way around. Its hot if a chic makes out with another chic but disrespectful if its with another dude. I recall this one married chic i was banging who wanted her soon to be ex to move out. She paid little interest to him until he announced he was going on a date. The minute he did not come home at exactly the percise time she began a new found interest (calling him several times, texting, and even waited to yell at him when he did finaly get home). It was perfectly fine for her to persue other men just as long as he was home alone and miserable. Like I said, jealousy is a very powerful emotion. DON'T BE A FOOL, JUST REMAIN COOL.

MJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

sidewind3r

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2005
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Age
50
talking is one thing but making out is another. you guys have a pretty open relationship
 
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
2,153
Reaction score
13
So let me get this straight:

I am supposed to let my girlfriend make out with guys at clubs while they dance and as long as she comes home with me I shouldn't mind?

:down:
 

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Stop confusing fvck buddies/plates with girlfriends!
 

strong like bull

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2002
Messages
498
Reaction score
7
is this like that one guy who was trying to nab a girl, who he KNEW FOR A FACT used to give out bj/handjobs to guys on halloween?

just because you act zen while she tries to get humped by other guys in front of you doesnt mean youre living the dj dream...

-SLB
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

joey2times

Banned
Joined
Oct 6, 2007
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Why would your "girl" want to make out with other guys? The whole scenario doesn't make sense. You claim to have to "push her off you", and the next minute she's tongue kissing some dude on the dance floor. With her supposed boyfriend under the same roof?

There's a lot about your story that reeks.
 

Brians_600rr

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 10, 2007
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
i do agree that jealousy is a VERY powerful emotion and it can ignite a spark and increase attraction.

but the whole thing about ur girl making out with another dude and u being cool with it is just a little weird. lol good luck with that though man
 

Andromax

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 31, 2004
Messages
393
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Alaska
I guess if you're able to deal with that. I don't like putting my mouth where other guys have so recently been, but whatever.

Sure flying off the handle isn't the smartest move if you see 'your' girl making out with some other guy, but getting pissed about it is perfectly acceptable. I'm sure any guy with an ounce of self respect wouldn't think twice before dumping her.

I'm not the jealous type at all, but IDK maybe I just have a soft spot for a woman with morals.
 

Hullothere

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2007
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
you try to sound like a tough guy but I'm sorry you are nothing but a chump if you let your girl kiss another guy. lol.. thats just hilarious... WOW
 

Hullothere

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2007
Messages
63
Reaction score
1
it also tells everyone else but you, what your girl thinks of you. She has enough respect for you to make out with another guy in the same building as you... LOL. And you play it off as being "ok". I hope this thread is a joke...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

TryingToBeDJ

New Member
Joined
Dec 12, 2007
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
This is totally not DJ

:cuss: <~~ that's me if that happend to me!

I am not a DJ but hell if a DJ plays it cool when his GF gets it on with another guy... then I don't wanna be a DJ. This is so anti-MAN!
 
Top