"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jealousy=wuss

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The most powerful emotion out there bar none is jealousy. The fastest way to burn out any relationship and destroy your confidence, DHV spikes, prizability,and inner game.

A little hint of jealousy can be beneficial to refuel some attraction but be warned exposing too much of that emotion could lead to the risk of going temporarily insane.

Lots of guys get all bent out of shape if their girls talk to men or get hit on by men. I personally encourage it, I told my main woman to remember the exact pickup line if at all possible. REALITY- if a chic is remotely good looking sooner or later she is bound to be hit on, thats a fact. If that bothers you, might as well put the dunce cap on now. Why is it okay for a girl to make out with another chic, but if she french kisses a guy our blood begins to boil.

I was out in the club, my girl was all over me.........I literally had to push her away from time to time as I wanted to scope the bar for new fish. So she asked a younger friend to dance and sure enough he began making out with her on the dancefloor out of my visual site............or so she thought. Now my first impulse was to run up there and do a RAMBO and get all up in their BIZNAZ, but I chilled............just watched. When she came back to our table she acted like everything was cool. I voiced my opinion by saying "did u enjoy dancing............I mean kissing". She gave me that old....what are you talking 'bout look. Then she tried to downplay it, and finally ended up with well I am going home with you routine.

It truly is the double standard in the purest sense. Its okay if we do it but not the other way around. Its hot if a chic makes out with another chic but disrespectful if its with another dude. I recall this one married chic i was banging who wanted her soon to be ex to move out. She paid little interest to him until he announced he was going on a date. The minute he did not come home at exactly the percise time she began a new found interest (calling him several times, texting, and even waited to yell at him when he did finaly get home). It was perfectly fine for her to persue other men just as long as he was home alone and miserable. Like I said, jealousy is a very powerful emotion. DON'T BE A FOOL, JUST REMAIN COOL.

MJ
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sidewind3r

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talking is one thing but making out is another. you guys have a pretty open relationship
 
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So let me get this straight:

I am supposed to let my girlfriend make out with guys at clubs while they dance and as long as she comes home with me I shouldn't mind?

:down:
 

wolf116

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Stop confusing fvck buddies/plates with girlfriends!
 

strong like bull

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is this like that one guy who was trying to nab a girl, who he KNEW FOR A FACT used to give out bj/handjobs to guys on halloween?

just because you act zen while she tries to get humped by other guys in front of you doesnt mean youre living the dj dream...

-SLB
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why would your "girl" want to make out with other guys? The whole scenario doesn't make sense. You claim to have to "push her off you", and the next minute she's tongue kissing some dude on the dance floor. With her supposed boyfriend under the same roof?

There's a lot about your story that reeks.
 

Brians_600rr

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i do agree that jealousy is a VERY powerful emotion and it can ignite a spark and increase attraction.

but the whole thing about ur girl making out with another dude and u being cool with it is just a little weird. lol good luck with that though man
 

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I guess if you're able to deal with that. I don't like putting my mouth where other guys have so recently been, but whatever.

Sure flying off the handle isn't the smartest move if you see 'your' girl making out with some other guy, but getting pissed about it is perfectly acceptable. I'm sure any guy with an ounce of self respect wouldn't think twice before dumping her.

I'm not the jealous type at all, but IDK maybe I just have a soft spot for a woman with morals.
 

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you try to sound like a tough guy but I'm sorry you are nothing but a chump if you let your girl kiss another guy. lol.. thats just hilarious... WOW
 

Hullothere

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it also tells everyone else but you, what your girl thinks of you. She has enough respect for you to make out with another guy in the same building as you... LOL. And you play it off as being "ok". I hope this thread is a joke...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TryingToBeDJ

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This is totally not DJ

:cuss: <~~ that's me if that happend to me!

I am not a DJ but hell if a DJ plays it cool when his GF gets it on with another guy... then I don't wanna be a DJ. This is so anti-MAN!
 
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