"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jealousy/Mine.

Rainman4707

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Lets say you & your GF both agree to finish after being together for a few years, she meets someone. You remember how attractive & sexy she is. You imagine another man enjoying her majestic face & big, fresh awesome breasts.

What i'm getting at is that, once you part with someone, there is every chance you may not get back together. One might think we'll part, we'll both go on the dating scene for a few month, but we are so good together that we'll end up back together. That is'nt true though, she might meet someone who she likes a lot & thats the tricky part both for you & her if one of you gets on well with someone else you may not want to get back together again, so once you end it, it may be possible it's for good.

I know a guy who met his Wife when they were in high school. His wife is an 8 at least. They were together for six years. At some point after that they went into an open LTR His wife is an 8 at least. I remember walking into a bar one night. She stood out. Fantastic tit*. She approached
me that night & another night, not long after & asked me to dance with her, but i know her boyfriend/now husband so out of respect for him, I did'nt go for her (i also wasn't aware that they were in an open LTR) she asked me to dance with her.
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Me:- Nah, what about your BF
Her - He's not here.


I just gave her a smile & went to the restroom (like i say, i knew her lad) note :- majority of lads
that night were either stood with their tongues out drooling over her tit8 bouncing up & down & all around or practically on their knees in front of her begging her for some attention.

I heard that she could'nt get enough of the coc* whilst they were in an open relationship. Now if i was told the truth which i think to be true, i know one of the lads who she fu*ked whilst in open LTR
& her BF also knew him. THAT would seriously make me think, do i ever want to commit to her knowing that a guy i know has seen her naked. I am proud of the fact that to my knowledge no male i know has seen my GF naked.

note :- never again will I draft a thread on notepad then paste it here. I've been on an hour & a half
moving paragraphs & sh*t into correct position!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not really sure what you are talking about. Are you wondering what you should think about a chick you are in a relationship is fvcking other dudes?

If this is what you are getting at, then I would just say don't get into relationships with chicks. Why would you get married to someone and then have an open relationship... that's just fvcking stupid. You are giving a women access to your resources and she gives you nothing. If you want to screw around with other women, fine.... why in the world would you marry one of them? Even if she says she is okay with you screwing other chicks, why would you keep her.

The idea that you want to have an open relationship with your wife, in the interest of not going through divorce court is just fvcking stupid. Sure you might have to hand half your sh!t over to her, but if you stay married.... you might end up having to raise someone else's kid... AND she has access to ALL your sh!t. The reason divorce is so expensive is because it is worth it. Yea it's expensive, but it is MUCH worst to be shackled to a women who wants to turn you into a cuck.
 

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Not really sure what you are talking about. Are you wondering what you should think about a chick you are in a relationship is fvcking other dudes?

If this is what you are getting at, then I would just say don't get into relationships with chicks. Why would you get married to someone and then have an open relationship... that's just fvcking stupid. You are giving a women access to your resources and she gives you nothing. If you want to screw around with other women, fine.... why in the world would you marry one of them? Even if she says she is okay with you screwing other chicks, why would you keep her.

The idea that you want to have an open relationship with your wife, in the interest of not going through divorce court is just fvcking stupid. Sure you might have to hand half your sh!t over to her, but if you stay married.... you might end up having to raise someone else's kid... AND she has access to ALL your sh!t. The reason divorce is so expensive is because it is worth it. Yea it's expensive, but it is MUCH worst to be shackled to a women who wants to turn you into a cuck.
They were married after they were in an open relationship.
 

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No you can't break up and get back together with women
This is true, but there are lover's quarrels where you think you broke up but if you get back together fast enough they don't count. Those test and can strengthen the relationship. There needs to be that one almost-breakup because that's the biggest test you put the other through.

But if you have a true breakup (I would define this as meaning you don't get a chance for a whole ovulation cycle, and someone else does), you might get back together but years later when you reflect on the before and after relationships, the second one never compares.

Going back to old loves (or old jobs) is a losing proposition. Why? She (or the company) detached. One of you won't trust the other. The illusion that you'll live happily ever after was shattered. It's like a car with a bent frame coming back from the shop. You can never get the alignment right again, even with Camber/Castor plates.

Once a woman has loved a man she will do anything for him, except love him again.
 

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6-7 hours is an official breakup?? Did you ever fall asleep for 8 hours?

Did you mean 6-7 days or even weeks?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women who want open relationships or "breaks" are usually testing the market to see if they can pull someone better than you. They are only performing this test because they really believe they can do better. If they find out they can't do better, they will come back.

This kind of thing is very disrespectful to the man though. Its not something I or any man with abundance would tolerate. If she wants to bring other women into the bedroom and experiment with sex, that's cool. But other men? Hell no. Maybe my ego is too big, but I don't trust any woman who has the balls to rub hypergamy in my face. If I'm not her king, I don't really see the point of committing to her when there are so many other HOT women I could be sleeping with instead. That's just me.
 
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