I can get good looking girls pretty easy, but if I find out they're going to the bar with their girlfriend, or some good looking guy is talking to them, I get paranoid. I know it's insecurity... but what I'm saying is, I don't know how to handle dating a girl who has a lot of options. I know I have to act like I don't care, but man it's hard.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Jealousy is killing me dude
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