I can get good looking girls pretty easy, but if I find out they're going to the bar with their girlfriend, or some good looking guy is talking to them, I get paranoid. I know it's insecurity... but what I'm saying is, I don't know how to handle dating a girl who has a lot of options. I know I have to act like I don't care, but man it's hard.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Jealousy is killing me dude
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