"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jealousy...I hate it

Triple T

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We've all been through it, we see a girl we like laughing with some other guy and enjoying her time. And then we get that feeling...the feeling of jealousy
It sucks, jealousy can ruin even the best of men.

This one girl I know likes me,(HB8) and I like her, I just haven't pulled a move yet because I got another girl as an option, I just don't know which one to take.

Anyways, I tease her and C+F and all that.
Its working great, but when I see her in the halls or something with another guy...boy oh boy that just gets me JEALOUS!!
I hate it, I just can't help but think that she doesn't like me anymore and then I start turning AFC and I keep thinking about her. :cuss:

So my question is...how do you deal with jealousy?
It ruins my game so I'd really like to know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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antidonjuan

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Maybe the girl is trying to get you jealous and is running a test on you to see whether you are jealous and observe your actions.

Also, don't get stuck up on just one particular girl. You are the DJ, you've got more girls to worry about right?

And why don't you use your flirting skills and get HER to be jealous of you?


Others? Am I right?
 

Cry For Love

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take stuff less seriously, try not to be dependent on anything or anyone, then you wont become jealous either
 

ARrocket

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Yeah man, I know it sucks, I experience the same thing all the time.

All I can say is, you gotta make a move. That's the only way you'll ever get any peace of mind. And yes, you can make her a bit jealous yourself ;)
 

Punisha

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same story here but i found out the guy she was with was her brother :D
anyway i got a failed backstab from a ''friend''that tried to tap her as$ but because of him being kinda AFC or maybe because i played her game(teasing her back and stuff like that)he got shotted down and will probably end up in an even worse(or worst....never got this worse/worst thing)situation than being just friends.:crackup:
Be beware it sometimes doesent go that way...for some reason i seem to believe that HS is a DJ's bane.anyone share my opinion?

To help with jeously i tend to go like: hes just another AFC that will get shoted down and cry to his mommy.or sometimes i just focus on myself and forget about it.have you reed the Kill the desperation post?works wonders
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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