"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jealousy...I hate it

Triple T

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We've all been through it, we see a girl we like laughing with some other guy and enjoying her time. And then we get that feeling...the feeling of jealousy
It sucks, jealousy can ruin even the best of men.

This one girl I know likes me,(HB8) and I like her, I just haven't pulled a move yet because I got another girl as an option, I just don't know which one to take.

Anyways, I tease her and C+F and all that.
Its working great, but when I see her in the halls or something with another guy...boy oh boy that just gets me JEALOUS!!
I hate it, I just can't help but think that she doesn't like me anymore and then I start turning AFC and I keep thinking about her. :cuss:

So my question is...how do you deal with jealousy?
It ruins my game so I'd really like to know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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antidonjuan

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Maybe the girl is trying to get you jealous and is running a test on you to see whether you are jealous and observe your actions.

Also, don't get stuck up on just one particular girl. You are the DJ, you've got more girls to worry about right?

And why don't you use your flirting skills and get HER to be jealous of you?


Others? Am I right?
 

Cry For Love

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take stuff less seriously, try not to be dependent on anything or anyone, then you wont become jealous either
 

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Yeah man, I know it sucks, I experience the same thing all the time.

All I can say is, you gotta make a move. That's the only way you'll ever get any peace of mind. And yes, you can make her a bit jealous yourself ;)
 

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same story here but i found out the guy she was with was her brother :D
anyway i got a failed backstab from a ''friend''that tried to tap her as$ but because of him being kinda AFC or maybe because i played her game(teasing her back and stuff like that)he got shotted down and will probably end up in an even worse(or worst....never got this worse/worst thing)situation than being just friends.:crackup:
Be beware it sometimes doesent go that way...for some reason i seem to believe that HS is a DJ's bane.anyone share my opinion?

To help with jeously i tend to go like: hes just another AFC that will get shoted down and cry to his mommy.or sometimes i just focus on myself and forget about it.have you reed the Kill the desperation post?works wonders
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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