"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jealousy...I hate it

Triple T

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We've all been through it, we see a girl we like laughing with some other guy and enjoying her time. And then we get that feeling...the feeling of jealousy
It sucks, jealousy can ruin even the best of men.

This one girl I know likes me,(HB8) and I like her, I just haven't pulled a move yet because I got another girl as an option, I just don't know which one to take.

Anyways, I tease her and C+F and all that.
Its working great, but when I see her in the halls or something with another guy...boy oh boy that just gets me JEALOUS!!
I hate it, I just can't help but think that she doesn't like me anymore and then I start turning AFC and I keep thinking about her. :cuss:

So my question is...how do you deal with jealousy?
It ruins my game so I'd really like to know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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antidonjuan

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Maybe the girl is trying to get you jealous and is running a test on you to see whether you are jealous and observe your actions.

Also, don't get stuck up on just one particular girl. You are the DJ, you've got more girls to worry about right?

And why don't you use your flirting skills and get HER to be jealous of you?


Others? Am I right?
 

Cry For Love

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take stuff less seriously, try not to be dependent on anything or anyone, then you wont become jealous either
 

ARrocket

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Yeah man, I know it sucks, I experience the same thing all the time.

All I can say is, you gotta make a move. That's the only way you'll ever get any peace of mind. And yes, you can make her a bit jealous yourself ;)
 

Punisha

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same story here but i found out the guy she was with was her brother :D
anyway i got a failed backstab from a ''friend''that tried to tap her as$ but because of him being kinda AFC or maybe because i played her game(teasing her back and stuff like that)he got shotted down and will probably end up in an even worse(or worst....never got this worse/worst thing)situation than being just friends.:crackup:
Be beware it sometimes doesent go that way...for some reason i seem to believe that HS is a DJ's bane.anyone share my opinion?

To help with jeously i tend to go like: hes just another AFC that will get shoted down and cry to his mommy.or sometimes i just focus on myself and forget about it.have you reed the Kill the desperation post?works wonders
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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