"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jealousy: Does it Work?

Lost1

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Just wondering if anyone has ever decided to try and make a girl jealous.

First of all I saw this girl for 3 weeks she was way into me then just stopped for some odd reason and I got LBF'd. The Same invites me to a party. Do you think going and bringing another girl would actually create jealousy?



Anyone ever been in that situation and has it actually worked?



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay Jay

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The Tao of Jealousy

If you TRY to make a girl jealous it will backfire.

If you make a girl, without trying, jealous by being a great guy with chicks all over you then it works bigtime.

Example 1.

I was at a friends party. There were three girls present who I had shagged in recent times. One of them is a good mate and it was her that pointed out. Anyway I tried to play the other two off against each other.

They both turned my tactics against me and flirted all night with other guys.

Example 2.

Same (2) girls a few weeks later. Having realised the error of my ways I tried to facilitate a friendly atmosphere between them. They competed ruthlessly for my attention.

Go figure...

JJ
 

Juan_Man

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Been there, done that. It doesn't work because it's too obvious.

If you want to make the girl jealous, then she has to catch you with another girl. If you bring another girl to a party that you know she will be at, she will see that you are trying to make her jealous and it's going to lower her respect for you even more. If you want to make her jealous, she has to catch you in the act of being a mack.

Personally, I think these games are pointless. The best thing to do is give her little to no attention and keep yourself busy doing other things (and other girls).

P.S. I started the same exact thread over five years ago. I wish I could find it because it would be a funny read.
 

kdnash82

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I partially disagree. Personally, I wouldn't BRING a girl to a party to make another jealous. What I would do is just go to the party to have fun. Stop caring about what she thinks. Go to the party, talk to her for a short amount of time, then enjoy the party. Talk with as many people as you can. Forget that she's there. The pure fact of her seeing you having fun without her will make her jealous. It doesn't take another girl to make a girl jealous.
 
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