"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jealously Games?

rocket

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Do women play jealousy games with guys they are not interested in? I have a girl that I think is highly interested in me, but for the past few day it seems that it's one jealousy test after the next. Would a woman put so much effort into mentally screwing with someone they don't like? I'm not an AFC and it hasn't affected me yet, but every time it doesn't affect me...it seems the tests get harder.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Why wouldn't they?

It gets them the attention that they seek from fooling some poor sap into thinking he has a chance.
 

rocket

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so if she is playing them then the guy doesn't have a chance? what's the best way to beat them and make them want you? just ignore and put other things before her?
 

jmchavz

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You're not WHAT???? AFC???? Think again!!!

rocket said:
I have a girl that I think is highly interested in me, but for the past few day it seems that it's one jealousy test after the next.

I'm not an AFC and it hasn't affected me yet, but every time it doesn't affect me...it seems the tests get harder.

You are paying to much attention to the sh!t she is trowing.

Dude, you're AFC. period.

You said it yourself.... I AM NOT AN AFC

Ego tripping and denying you're not AFC puts you at....

AFC!!!!!:moon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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