"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jealously Games?

rocket

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Do women play jealousy games with guys they are not interested in? I have a girl that I think is highly interested in me, but for the past few day it seems that it's one jealousy test after the next. Would a woman put so much effort into mentally screwing with someone they don't like? I'm not an AFC and it hasn't affected me yet, but every time it doesn't affect me...it seems the tests get harder.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Why wouldn't they?

It gets them the attention that they seek from fooling some poor sap into thinking he has a chance.
 

rocket

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so if she is playing them then the guy doesn't have a chance? what's the best way to beat them and make them want you? just ignore and put other things before her?
 

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You're not WHAT???? AFC???? Think again!!!

rocket said:
I have a girl that I think is highly interested in me, but for the past few day it seems that it's one jealousy test after the next.

I'm not an AFC and it hasn't affected me yet, but every time it doesn't affect me...it seems the tests get harder.

You are paying to much attention to the sh!t she is trowing.

Dude, you're AFC. period.

You said it yourself.... I AM NOT AN AFC

Ego tripping and denying you're not AFC puts you at....

AFC!!!!!:moon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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