"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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derby1

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I have a plate who is very good in a lot of ways,

however she is very jealous and insecure.

I spoke to her late one night, and because she hadnt heard from me by 11am the next she messaged "are we still friends?"

she is constantly rattling on about other women fancying me, (this is a double edged sword, keeps her respecting me, but she nags me)

Are jealous girls more likely to cheat because they think your up to no good?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don’t think they are any more likely to cheat than any other girl. The problem is jealousy comes from a place of insecurity which tends to make then controlling and manipulative. Overall jealous people are not fun to date.
 

manfrombelow

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Based on the message, it's hard to tell if she's really the "jealous" type. Insecure, maybe but I'm not sure about the jealous type

If I were you, I'd text back:

"Yes of course, why do you ask"?

And based on her elaboration, for example she questions your late reply, tell her "Honey I'm not a big fan of texting" and keep it from there.

Don't drop this one just yet. She sounds manageable if you ask me.
 

The Duke

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Time to cut ties. Next she will be leaving panties, listick, and other female accessories at your place so other girls can find them. Or she will beat down your front door the next time you are banging some other chic.
And why do you care if she cheats? Lol.
 

darksprezzatura

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Keep spinning. Maintain frame. The loonies will separate themselves. As they should.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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devilkingx2

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I spoke to her late one night, and because she hadnt heard from me by 11am the next she messaged "are we still friends?"

she is constantly rattling on about other women fancying me, (this is a double edged sword, keeps her respecting me, but she nags me)
Aw that's cute. She's like a teenager. I would find it endearing unless escalated into annoying or crazy.

Are jealous girls more likely to cheat because they think your up to no good?
Only if she's the jaded and cynical type that will take it as confirmation that men ain't ****.

What may happen is she wants to check your phone or make you cut off certain female friends she doesn't like. Or she does a jealousy play against you.
 
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