I met a girl last night she was about a 7 - 8 but she had the most amazing personality. The problem was she was out with a few guy friends who clearly wanted her. For obvious reasons she fell head over heels for me but the problem was when i was kissing her a glass flew over and smacked me in the side of the head then hit her on the nose, luckily the glass was actually made of plastic. Now as soon as it hit me i saw red and went ****ing mental and none of them admitted doing it. I was absolutly fuming, whats the best way to deal with this situation, should I have calmed down or should I have went nuts until I finally found out who done it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
GloriouslyInsane
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In the future,isolate.In that case i would say "Someone dropped a glass" ,then pick it up and throw it (pass) back to them
Honestly I would have reacted the same in that kind of situation. If you would have said Hey did someone drop a glass or somehing of that matter you would look like a ***** in my opinion, because you are trying to avoid conflict. Yeah some people would say that an Alpha Male would just look past the whole thing but everyone handles things different. I would have picked up the glass and acted like i was going to toss it back at the person who threw it. You have prob gotten some sort of reaction from the person who threw it.
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Seems like i slightly misread the post,i thought he was out with *his* friends,well the problem was going out with a girl and her guy friends from the start.I've been in a similar situation but with *my* friends so i acted like i posted before,can't really give you advise on this one though 
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I'd be pissed as hell man! I dont blame you for reacting the way you did! You actually handled it much cooler than I could have!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well that was a perfect reason to isolate. <wack from glass> "Hey, lets get out of the line of fire here - the poparazzi must have spotted us" <smile> Take her hand....<Lead her outside or some quiet area>
Getting angry doesn't get you anywhere with the girl. Laugh it off and go have sex with her.
Getting angry doesn't get you anywhere with the girl. Laugh it off and go have sex with her.
Well don't overreact and show your temper that will be bad in the long run. somebody throws something at you, shrugg it off. No need to get pissed at such a small thing. Unless its something big like a chair. lol. Be mature, don't be immature.