I met a girl last night she was about a 7 - 8 but she had the most amazing personality. The problem was she was out with a few guy friends who clearly wanted her. For obvious reasons she fell head over heels for me but the problem was when i was kissing her a glass flew over and smacked me in the side of the head then hit her on the nose, luckily the glass was actually made of plastic. Now as soon as it hit me i saw red and went ****ing mental and none of them admitted doing it. I was absolutly fuming, whats the best way to deal with this situation, should I have calmed down or should I have went nuts until I finally found out who done it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GloriouslyInsane
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In the future,isolate.In that case i would say "Someone dropped a glass" ,then pick it up and throw it (pass) back to them
Honestly I would have reacted the same in that kind of situation. If you would have said Hey did someone drop a glass or somehing of that matter you would look like a ***** in my opinion, because you are trying to avoid conflict. Yeah some people would say that an Alpha Male would just look past the whole thing but everyone handles things different. I would have picked up the glass and acted like i was going to toss it back at the person who threw it. You have prob gotten some sort of reaction from the person who threw it.
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Seems like i slightly misread the post,i thought he was out with *his* friends,well the problem was going out with a girl and her guy friends from the start.I've been in a similar situation but with *my* friends so i acted like i posted before,can't really give you advise on this one though 
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I'd be pissed as hell man! I dont blame you for reacting the way you did! You actually handled it much cooler than I could have!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well that was a perfect reason to isolate. <wack from glass> "Hey, lets get out of the line of fire here - the poparazzi must have spotted us" <smile> Take her hand....<Lead her outside or some quiet area>
Getting angry doesn't get you anywhere with the girl. Laugh it off and go have sex with her.
Getting angry doesn't get you anywhere with the girl. Laugh it off and go have sex with her.
Well don't overreact and show your temper that will be bad in the long run. somebody throws something at you, shrugg it off. No need to get pissed at such a small thing. Unless its something big like a chair. lol. Be mature, don't be immature.