Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Suicide

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Hey all,

So I'm goign to Japan soon and was curious as to if anyone has tried DJing the Japanese girls there, or lives there and knows what they're like. I'd like to give it a shot, but I'm not sure if being an American is going to help or hurt me.

Any experiences to share?

Cheers
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dapper Swindler

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Are you crazy? You've never heard about how much Japanese girls love American guys? It is one of the easiest places on the planet to get laid.

Of course, that wasn't enough for me to get laid while I was there. You can find girls that will sleep with you in clubs and bars I suppose. Just remember to act like an American stereotype even if it seems out of place. Be strong and assertive. Learn a few lines of Japanese, they'll think that's cute. Ask anything more specific you want to know.
 

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If you are white/caucasion and reasonably good looking you should have no problems getting noticed. It is fashionable these days for Jap girls to go out with white guys, especially American men.

Although I have never been to Japan per se, the few encounters I have had with Jap girls here in the States indicates to me that they are pretty easy to DJ and can be quite sexual/horny despite their ******dy shy nature.
 

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I'm not really sure how to go about approaching one. I mean, I'm by no means fluent in Japanese and really have no idea what to do - not to mention I'm completely poor. I'll be going on charm, novelty and looks alone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ANY type of Asian girls love western guys, which is why there aren't many asian guys getting hot asian girls (like me) :(

but if you are outgoing at japan clubs,bars, speak few lines like "hello" in japanese, they will think your approachable ;)

btw japan girls are really horney since they are very open minded about sex :D
 

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say hi in japanese to some girl at the bar or something with a stereotyped american slang.. like you're trynig hard but cant pronounce it accurately. somehow this makes them giggle for ****s. and she'll probably try and correct you, and you can carry on a convo from there. good luck mate..
 

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I thought Asians disliked Americans and considered them to be slow and stupid.

And in Japan, probably backward too. They're polite in front of you, but I bet they have a good laugh behind your back.

--iMat
 

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Originally posted by iMat
I thought Asians disliked Americans and considered them to be slow and stupid.

--iMat
I consider many women to be slow and stupid but that doesn't mean I don't want to bang them

Oh and Suicide, it is okay if you don't speak Japanese. All Japanese know at least a little English. Learn enough to explain that you don't know Japanese but would still like to meet them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have any of you actually been to Japan? I guess if you only stay in the Red Light districts you could get laid quick.
 

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Originally posted by Suicide
Hey all,

So I'm goign to Japan soon and was curious as to if anyone has tried DJing the Japanese girls there, or lives there and knows what they're like. I'd like to give it a shot, but I'm not sure if being an American is going to help or hurt me.

Any experiences to share?

Cheers
Never seen Japanese porn eh? They're much more comfortable with their bodies that I've seen and as for Asian porn stars? "What makes Asian chicks so great?" "Oooo ehhh because da eh... tight putty!" You're a lucky man, represent the red, white, and blue while their legs are crammed against the headboard.
 

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Hey what about foreign guys thats not japanese? like say viet or Phlilipino for example do with japanese girls?
 
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