Japanese foreigner waste my to

[joe45]

Japanese foreigner waste my time
Got a 2nd date today . We walked around dwtn and had ice cream and then nIghtmarket. I did touch on her and she reject it and later 10 min later touch arm on shoulder arm on waist and still while we walking. she tell me she got a bf. I ask her why she meets me and she says as friends. She shows me pic of her and her bf. what a waste of time today. Should have went to poker
She just meet me as a friend.
She is a Japanese foreigner 4 weeks in Vancouver

I ask her why u don't like me and she said yes but as friend. I don't need a friend I dont need bf

She said u look elsewhere but not me. Great u go out with me for nothing. .


She said she don't need bf but just friend


Ur thoughts and advice. Also I'm Chinese. I got feeling Jp girls don't like other Asian guys

 

[foreverAFC]

she probably was using you to keep her company while she was away from her bf.

 

[Leopold]

I think you are right that most japs arent into other asians but nothing is written in stone.

Move on; learn from this experience. Keep trying dont give up

 

[Boilermaker]

What part of

I don't need a boyfriend, I like you as a friend

you didn't understand?


What can't you guys just enjoy a woman's company as a HUMAN BEING every once in a while , instead of seeing them as walking holes to be drilled ALL THE TIME ?

 

[Iceberg]

What part of

I don't need a boyfriend, I like you as a friend

you didn't understand?


What can't you guys just enjoy a woman's company as a HUMAN BEING every once in a while , instead of seeing them as walking holes to be drilled ALL THE TIME ?

She's not just a HUMAN BEING...she's a girl that he was on a 1-on-1 date with. Well...he thought it was a date, anyway.

Your argument is coming out of left field.

This isn't a discussion on female friends. This is a discussion on a guy getting friendzoned midway through his 2nd time hanging out with her. It's not like they were old high school buddies or something.

Having female friends = fine.

Finding out that some girl waited until your 2nd "date" to mention her boyfriend = NOT fine

If she wanted to keep things friendly (like a "human being" as you say), she could have mentioned the boyfriend from day 1.

 

[VladPatton]

Ever notice how Asian chicks are always with a dorky white guy? This is something I've noticed for years. Cut your losses, man Asian girls are pretty hard to game unless they are very Americanized. That's just MY opinion.