Japanese culture

[Andersbjorler]

I'm pretty new to all of this, I've never had much luck with women, but you have to start somewhere, right?

At any rate I recently met a Japanese girl whose going to school in America in a chatroom (and Im talking directly from Japan not Japanese/American) I'd like to hang out with her and see where things go. The problem is I dont know alot about the Japanese culture, and I've never met a Japanese girl so I'm not sure how different they are from American girls. I'm sure their not that much different but culturally there are definite differences. Any thoughts on the subject?

 

[amokk23]

how long has she been in America for? You should be able to tell if she's americanised by the music she listens to what nationality are you Andersbjorler?

Most GEN X asian girls are pretty easy to get along with. 1 thing to bare in mind is not to discuss money or family affairs and also from exprience most asian girls don't like to be kino'ed straight away.
But do as you like, if she plays up then NEXT her she'll love you more for it .

 

[Genghis Juan]

I had a 2yr LTR with a Japanese girl, which involved us living together for several months.

I can tell you that Japanese girls are at one of two extremes. Either they are complete sluts just looking to sleep around or they are super serious. Beware of the docile timid nature they all have, they could still be a slut, but it will be more difficult for you to detect at first.

The LTR I had with the girl I knew became a MAJOR drain, because she was obviously super serious and she was very clingy; which is typical of Japanese girls who are serious.

Another aspect about Japanese girls that I don't like is that they can't seem to make a decision on their own. And they just don't talk about much, I was carrying every conversation most of the time. She became a major bore.

 

[ScrewIt]

i attend college in the u.s.

and my experience with many japanese women i meet in the school....yea they came to america just for college, and planning to go back afterwards.

their english is not that good, but it's comprehendable.

they are very friendly ppl and will talk to almost anyone.

i noticed that they are quite submissive.

they practically agree with everything i say and dont really have their own opinion on a topic we discuss. just keep nodding your head ok?? warning! ROBOT!!

and analyzing this, they probably rely on you to make decisions.

i think this is why many foreigners are able to marry japanese women because of their submissive personality.
i keep hearing friends and ppl i know (not asian) saying how they have an japanese aunt, or how his friend gots a japanese wife.
blahblah, my friend, "this summer im gonna go to japan and bag me a wife!"
thats all i ever hear. what about korean, chinese, vietnamese, philippino?

there have been a few jap guys i met in school who are somewhat like this, but not as extreme as jap women are

 

[Ice Cold]

I only had 2. Both of them LOVE sex, both of them hot and intresting in a kinda different way.

They are a bit more open sexually than canadians in my experience...

 

[DJ Alejandro]

respect seems to be very important. especially in the earlier phases of the relationship so don't kino them too much early on. bad luck if they turn out to be a blackbelt!

i dunno. but most japanese girlz here are very reserved. to everyone.

 

[Skel]

Luv you long time?